Yeah that's why unfortunately it's ultimately fairly arbitrary. All but the biggest sickos probably see somewhere between 16-20 as the "right" age for sexual consent. However, as you note, lumping people who are "too old' under minority is also an issue. I do think consolidating things (versus different ages for sex drugs and rock and roll) would have a bit of a useful effect though.
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Of course. What I'm saying is a clear arbitrary line is more important than the specific morality. After all, in some cultures 16 might be more free of the power dynamics that make it disgusting. Meanwhile, some 19 year olds might be so precarious in their material conditions that their consent to an older partner while "legal" isn't moral at all.
This is why setting a standard is important. The actual morality of any consent/sexual dynamic is bound up in so much contingency (age, class, culture) that its important to just set an arbitrary line, and people who try to skirt it need to be punished. We can't (legally) account for all of this so it isn't about morality it's about positive law.