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  • Yes, that's so true. I remember coming into a small amount of money and had been saving a little bit, and had just paid off a ridiculously long car loan on a used car - still one of the dumbest financial decisions I had made in my youth - 5.5 years on a used car, WTF was I even thinking, LOL.

    Anyway, I was itching to buy some new car possibly, as I had never bought new. Someone handed me a book about finances and the author reiterated what my parents had always tried to drill into my head - about the only worthwhile debt is real estate.

    For cars, he had this notion of "paying yourself" the car payment once you pay off a car. Do that for many years, and use that savings for your next car, preferably used, about 2 or 3 years old, after which the depreciation has had the steepest drop.

    So I skipped buying something new or used. For so many reasons, I am glad my co-worker lent me that book at that particular time.

  • It is true: I am highly dismissive of some kind of arbitrary cutoff based on age or term limits.

    I completely understand the deep frustration with certain individuals, for example, Schumer and Pelosi. But it has little to do with their age or the number of terms they have had, in my view. Things like this should be determined, by voters, on a case by case basis.

    If people are really that animated about changing the guard, then they need to do the work and show up on primaries, whether that is going so far as running themselves, or working for campaigns, or at least voting. But arbitrarily preempting the choices that others may want to vote for if they like a candidate, regardless (or perhaps because) of age/years of experience seems very unwise.

  • Yep. The right loves to pride themselves on being rational (lol) and the other side as being "emotional", but these are the same morons that cannot stand to come up against an idea that offends them.

    Ironically, they also whine about being "cancelled" but cheer having this corrupt administration police and/or shut down school content, park signs, and late night comedy shows.

  • I sure hope all these things are being kept somewhere so that if sanity is ever restored by having a Democratic administration, they put all this back up in like one day or one week, and broadcast that fact very prominently.

  • Yep. I don't really see any positive organizations/groups love-bombing young men.

    Honestly, my generation also heard rather dire messages of a bleak future for us - literally, one of my first memories of punk was listening to "No Future" by the Sex Pistols. We were watching our parents grinding it out as economic hardship and new ideas about how to run corporations hit our parents. Ronnie Raygunism and Thatcherism seemed to result into young men falling into groups like the neo-Nazi skinheads in some areas, but that was at the margins and there were no "influencers" and there was no way for people like to "find the others" like this.

    Back then, if someone bitched like these incels or these douchebros wanting a trad wife - they'd be told they are just too chickenshit and lazy to clean themselves up and learn to talk to women. They were not able to all find each other, en masse, have a few of them profit off of it, and then tell each other it is all the fault of the womenfolk. That's not to say all of us were in a healthy place, but at least there was no multiplier effect like there is now.

    I was one of the biggest fans and boosters of the 'net in the early days. These days, it seems to have so many negative effects, especially on the impressionable.

  • I think there is a real male loneliness epidemic and a crisis of identity among younger males, it seems.

    Few people/institutions seem to be offering men an off-ramp from this confusion and stress...except for this toxic brosphere stuff, sadly. It really explains a lot about things like the Proud Boys.

    Like you - I would not suggest a church as the solution. I really don't know what the answer is for healthy outlets and support structures for men truly is, though. People yelling "men suck" at them is likely to only push them deeper into the worst behaviors.

    Historically, this kind of discontent has never ended well.

  • But yeah violent misogyny must be met with feminism with teeth. We will not go back.

    I don't know: these people seem to be getting a permission structure from the government. Honestly, I've been watching some of this stuff and mostly being quiet about a lot of it, even online.

    But if you ask me honestly? I'm terrified about the direction things seem to be going. I've seen lots of unhelpful intergenerational warfare, mostly about boomers and Gen Y taking shots at one another, while my generation (Gen X) is playing the part of the forgotten child, just as we always have. Boomers seem to get blamed for everything in life, but it's not like these other generations don't have any agency!

    But I'm very concerned about Gen Z and alpha, and just where they are going. It's possible some of these people may break out of their mind forged manacles and moderate themselves or become more progressive, but that's not how these things tend to work. People tend to drift to the right as they get older, not the other direction. And if they are starting at the trad wife position at such a young age?....yikes.

  • Well, gosh. This falls right in line with what I've been saying and wondering aloud about things like the Fourth Turning.

    The Archie Bunker thing was something boomers stood up to make fun of their parents' generation. That is the kind of thing that all this ginned-up inter-generational warfare that seems largely directed at the boomers (and the Silent Generation and Generation Jones somewhat) seems to miss.

    And now we have all these younger "influencers" (barf) doing this kind of thing openly and unironically in the brosphere. The trad wife influencers. And those people and their fans are not the boomers...

  • HOLY SHIT.

    84 months!

    We are going to continue to drive our 16 year old car and 8 year old car around for a while longer, I hope. I cannot imagine paying for a car for 7 years, damn.

  • Until these assholes get around to forcing people to join them in their xtian delusions.

  • Came here to say this. The radicalized Nat C's and the radical Islamists believe on far, far more than either would probably care to admit. Maybe a few matters of diet, what day to worship, and other things on the margins.

    But both believe in the same god called Allah/Yahweh/Jehovah, and both have retconned stuff onto the Old Testament.

  • Oh, I'm quite sure the Nat C's would find ways to be destructive without the help of the zionists.

  • If it's "[their god Jehovah/Allah/Yahweh's] divine plan", why do they have to do anything?

  • Membership of the CPUSA peaked in the late 1940s, with over 75,000 members in 1947.[5] But their influence spanned beyond just their membership as some candidates in national elections garnered over 100,000 votes.

    Apparently there were about 143.7 million people in the United States at the time.

    Anyway, in all of my life, I've only met one person (IRL) that admitted they were a capital-C Communist.

  • I think it's orchestrated, myself.

    It seems nihilistic and doesn't seem to have any real aim other than further dividing Democrats. There is nothing inherently good or bad about someone's age (well, unless they haven't fully developed the PFC - there is a reason there are age requirements at the lower end) when you are trying to determine if they are fit to lead.

    Now, if people were to propose using more advanced screening techniques to catch things like Alzheimer's or other problematic things (I'd be a fan of trying to screen out various traits that lead to really bad leadership, myself, but obviously implementation would have many problems and of course many detractors), that might make more sense. But no, we are listening to what sounds like petulant teenagers having tirades about older people and it's rather boring. All of us were 14 once, but most of us evolved since then. The idea that you are only going to have representation from people who are in your "generation" is an incredibly silly and narcissistic one.

    Lastly I keep saying this, but: this particular period of time is really not going to age very well if life extension and other breakthroughs come online.

  • There was?

  • ...has been trending down ever since Blondi did her little performance.

  • He really is quite stupid. Watching him first steer into the "but muh economy!" thing nearly at the outset, to initially being hopeful it was going to kill off more black people than white people, to having Jared withhold life-saving supplies and equipment from entire states not deemed loyal enough to Donvict, to stoking stupid conspiracy theories and nostrums like horse dewormer, while also wanting all the credit for the vaccine (which we really had Obama to thank), and so on...

    Again, almost any normal human being without a broken brain and who had the barest modicum of empathy, or the ability to at least fake that empathy, could have done better at it.

  • PEDOnald meant himself first, everyone else...can get bent.

  • You cowardly bastard! You're not the voice of the people, I am the voice of the people! The people speak through me, not you! It came to me while I slept, Sonny... my destiny. In the middle of the night, it came to me - I must get up NOW, RIGHT NOW, and fulfill my destiny! Now you put your goddamn hand on that scanning screen, or I'll hack it off and put it on for you! DO IT!

    The missiles are flying. Hallelujah.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o5N4JWy-i98

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    Women report increased misogyny online post-election

    www.newsweek.com /nick-fuentas-abortion-social-post-2024-election-mysogyny-1982998
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    AP sources: White House altered record of Biden’s ‘garbage’ remarks despite stenographer concerns – The Denver Post

    www.denverpost.com /2024/10/31/ap-sources-white-house-altered-record-of-bidens-garbage-remarks-despite-stenographer-concerns/
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    Giuliani’s daughter says she ‘lost her dad’ to Trump, begs people to vote for Harris

    www.independent.co.uk /news/world/americas/us-politics/rudy-giuliani-daughter-harris-trump-b2621539.html
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    Any recommendations on getting into guns?

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    Americans’ economic outlook brightens as inflation slows and wages outpace prices

    www.denverpost.com /2024/01/23/americans-economic-outlook-brightens-as-inflation-slows-and-wages-outpace-prices/