I’m a married man and I’m glad about it.
Having stability and confidence that the person you love is there for you and going to stay there for you gives a wonderful and peaceful confidence.
Is marriage the only way to get that confidence? No.
Does marriage guarantee you will keep that confidence? Also no. Nothing is certain in this life.
But standing up in front of all your friends and family stating clearly that you intend to stick to and support this person for all your life, in a ceremony that everybody understand more or less the same way, is a really good base for building stability.
Yep. 50+ yo, every once in a while I wind up driving past a place I lived and reminiscing. My mom was a navy brat and moved around a LOT, we still every once in a while go drive by some place or other that she used to live growing up.
I still can’t believe they built a housing development all over my crayfish creek 😡