Sometimes people just want to be left alone. There's no solution to grief besides time. You can't materially improve this position but you can be around if they want to talk or just be around people.
Managing time and priorities is absolutely huge. You can get better at this stuff but you will probably never be great at handling competing demands on your time. I use a lot of phone timers and task lists to help me stay on track but ultimately I will always struggle. The difference with having a diagnosis was also a game changer in terms of how I felt and losing the shame of not being able to cope. On the other hand it also radicalised me and made me resentful of how I was being treated. I had long suspected that there was something unreasonable about the way people expected me to behave and now I knew why.
I began defending my choices and setting boundaries. Ultimately this destroyed my marriage but I couldn't go on pretending to be normal and if she can't accept that, it's her loss. I think it was a co-dependent relationship. We tend to attract people that seek to control us (not usually consciously or maliciously but, yeah) and this is a recipe for burn out. At work it has been much better, my employer makes allowances for me and work relationships have improved dramatically. They give me tasks where I can play to my strengths and make a positive difference.
In short, getting a diagnosis has been an absolute game changer. The medication is a significant component of the recovery process but it shouldn't be viewed as a silver bullet. Meditation and learning about the condition has been huge. I can accept who I am, stop hating myself and have compassion for myself.
There are some examples of buyers exploiting the returns policy for expensive items. The buyer initiates a return of item but never sends it, gets item and refund.
Tenerife is a great winter destination. It's cheap, warm and relatively close. The southern part of the island is touristic and could be described 'full English breakfast' but the interior and north is much more authentic and interesting.
A medical doctor is a well regarded and well numerated profession. They are pillars of society. They are trusted and revered in a way that teachers rarely are. The status of a doctor in the field of computer science or engineering is not much more than someone with a common or garden degree. Nobody knows what a research question is or how science is advanced. Everyone knows House and Grays Anatomy. Fuck those fake doctors with their models and predictive power. We don't revere truth tellers, we revere celebrity. We want dat bedside rizz. That's how Dr Shipman killed us. That's why Professor Nutt was fired from his post.
Why is it that people sneer at non-medical doctors? Far more fraud is committed by the bois with stethoscopes around their shoulders. People be falling for that bedside rizz and getting played like a fiddle.
On the other hand when women complain about threats from stalkers the police do nothing. You might as well delete the word justice from this criminal justice system.
They didn't vote for him so much as choose something other than the opposite party. In a first past the post voting system there is only the illusion of choice, it will always devolve into a duopoly.
Jokes on you, I smell like a vagrant