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Acklavidian

@ Acklavidian @lemmy.world

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  • how to keep doing something?

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  • Making something so routine that you don't think about it. Like getting ready for work. Build it into your life. Make it a distraction. Get rid of start up barriers that make it difficult to get started. Make it to where you don't expect to reach the goal. Put all the distractions together so you can switch between them seamlessly. Lean in to the ADHD. Make it so that once you reach your goal your not only surprised but also kinda sad it's over.

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    Is it normal for ADHD people to find it hard to cum because you think about laundry?

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  • Keep in mind that stimulants are going to interact with your libido in perhaps unintuitive ways. Like a lot of my experience as an ADHD'er this means a more exponential curve where a normal person would be linear. Meaning I take a while to warm up to a situation but I end up having more fun by the end compared to a normal person. Stimulants seem to add more bumps and valleys to this curve in my experience. Also a lot of adhd'rs end up on SSRI medication as well which can dull sex drive. I have found that THC works to counteract these effects

  • I guess my marriage is history

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  • On another note imo someone who makes plans that fall apart at the first hiccup and don't accommodate the people involved isn't someone who is good at making plans. Just someone that has very rigid expectations.

  • I guess my marriage is history

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  • Also your partner maybe experiencing some undiagnosed ADHD symptoms themselves. Where by they become more sensitive to ADHD behaviors that they themselves combat with a toxic inner voice. ADHD can be expressed in many ways and not always the cosmonaut - spacey variety. For instance having a very rigid routine in high stimulus activities like shopping where you're focus is being exploited by advertising and marketing.

  • I guess my marriage is history

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  • The ideal situation shouldn't be that you are made to cope in such a way that you operate as a normal person. The ideal should be that you have learned something about yourself that can allow you and your partner to organize your lives more effectively with less friction.

  • I guess my marriage is history

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  • It sounds like your partner maybe suffering from anxiety issues. As a adhd'r myself I have to constantly defend my need to just let me do things the way I want. Like give me a goal and let me mess up a bit. Just need the space and time to figure out how I am going to do something my own way cause my experience isn't typical and it becomes unintuitive for passerby who are trying to facilitate my progress. As a musician I also have become acutely sensitive to how long it takes me to learn an pickup new skills and how my alternative methods often allow me to flourish while traditional methods often hinder me.

  • Tinderule

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  • Was it felony murder or real murder tho?

  • A hypothesis

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  • I mean idk. I know it's simple once you know but not something I would expect the average person to be familiar with. To be fair if you're hacking you're probably are using ssh at some point. But also I wonder if some have a hard time accepting their own accomplishments. If we never allow ourselves to see our own advancement then we just see others who have not achieved as less. Give yourself some credit bro and by extension give these onlookers a break. What you're doing is kinda cool. Is that not what draws you to these types of activities in the first place?

  • What's your favorite case of a game making fun of you?

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  • Dip pen, October 2025.

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  • It's a awesome drawing. Confident lines. Strong proportions. However, the contrast in detail of the skin around the smile lines are skewing the age of the bottom of the face or maybe suggest creeply over expressed or that it is emphasized for some other reason.

  • How do you handle overeating caused by boredom and innatentiveness?

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  • Ready to eat quick food that is relatively healthy. Bananas, carrots, celery, rice cakes, chewing gum, water. Short circuit the junk snacks with fruits and veggies that are more easily accessed or at least as easy. I also had premade meals delivered. Make it to where it's a hassle to get access to unhealthy food. Hard to go through the trouble to get the junk food when the healthy stuff is readily available.

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    Great video debunking creationist perfect eye theory

  • YOU HAVE NO POWER HERE

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  • New to printing, not sure how to diagnose issues

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  • The second season is even better

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  • Old but if you haven't seen Making a Murderer you should give it a watch.

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    So small and so weak

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  • It reminds me of how musical artists would let people vote on their next venue, and 4chan would find ways to make it a school for the deaf, or the inception of Boaty McBoatface.

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    So small and so weak

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  • What makes you think this?

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  • This is a wonderful piece of art. Thank you for sharing.

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    So small and so weak

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  • Thanks. Made it the thumbnail for the post!

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    Unanswered Oddities