Western Liberal White Women are actually not that complicated. They just want to have fun, but it's that type Plankton talked about in that SpongeBob song

I'll be damned if my fucking bad posts get outbadded by sincere takes.

If you know what you're worth, go and get what you're worth. But you gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers... saying you ain't where you wanna be because of him or her or anybody! Cowards do that, and that ain't you! You're better than that!