How do you make sure people aren't sexually attracted to your innocence? I'm an adult now, but I've had to deal with sex pests in the past. I've learned some red flags, and I'd like to learn more.

I know a red flag is boundary-stepping over sexual and physical boundaries. Because that's called grooming. And that if I'm uncomfortable don't give them grace to stop by themselves, stand your ground immediately and leave the situation. Always say no, and literally run away if I have to.

Another red flag is if they buy you gifts without you asking, and they start saying you owe them favors for these gifts you didn't even ask for. It can escalate to many things like staying when they're do something abusive because they say you owe them anything they state you do. Sex has been demanded of me this way when I refused to have sex. So leave at once if this starts.

Is there anything you would add to this?