what up?

  • sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyzOP
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    2 days ago

    I feel you, dude. I’ve got autism and trying to gauge people for what kind of vibe is going to land is insanely difficult. internet dating helped me so much back before it went to shit. I feel pretty lost now

    • wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz
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      2 days ago

      Yeah, I’m at the point where I just assume the vibe will never land, so I don’t even try to interact with people anymore. Hence I get all my social interaction on lemmy.

      Am I pathetic enough yet? Or have I blown so far past the threshold that it’s just sad to watch?

      • sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyzOP
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        2 days ago

        I think your story isn’t over yet. maybe because I’m hoping mine isn’t either, but also our lives are seldom just a single straight line to ultimate failure.

        until you reach that point, have a hug 🫂 we contain multitudes of possibility and I hope you get to encounter something new about yourself soon

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            1 day ago

            how you move into your future is your choice, but I will remember not to waste your limited time with any embarrassing earnesty if we cross paths again 👍

            • wonderingwanderer@sopuli.xyz
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              1 day ago

              Sorry, I didn’t mean to sound passive-aggressive. Don’t worry about my time, just don’t waste yours cause I’m obviously not worth it