People’s expectations are wildly out of whack with reality of what a relationship really is. This leads to incredibly awful behaviors and beliefs.
There is also a massive difference between dating, and falling into relationships with people you are friends with. The latter is the better approach. Dating-dating is the nightmare.
That said, if you are amoral, and comfortable with lying incessantly and other manipulative stuff, dating will be great for you. The people who have the most success in the dating real are def those who are willing to lie and cheat and do manipulate and are generally more desirable.
It’s fascinating how totally flexible people become with their morals and lies when it comes to romantic relationships in a way they never exercise in other contexts. All is fair in love and war, I guess.
Don’t. Esp if you are a moral person.
People’s expectations are wildly out of whack with reality of what a relationship really is. This leads to incredibly awful behaviors and beliefs.
There is also a massive difference between dating, and falling into relationships with people you are friends with. The latter is the better approach. Dating-dating is the nightmare.
That said, if you are amoral, and comfortable with lying incessantly and other manipulative stuff, dating will be great for you. The people who have the most success in the dating real are def those who are willing to lie and cheat and do manipulate and are generally more desirable.
It’s fascinating how totally flexible people become with their morals and lies when it comes to romantic relationships in a way they never exercise in other contexts. All is fair in love and war, I guess.