I’m very sorry to keep bringing this up, I’m just wondering. I know no one can help and fix this but me, but I do like to vent before I decide whether or not to stay or leave. Here’s the problem: I wish it was easy for me to stand my ground, say how I feel, and dump my (22F) boyfriend Will (23NB/M), but I don’t wanna make him angry by telling him even if he’s not an angry guy and I just have a bad past. Also, he sometimes is very affectionate, especially when we actually see each other, and we’re always touching, kissing, and hugging, but mostly we don’t see each other and he’s always too busy when I ask if he wants to come or if I can come to his house.

However, we’re poly and he usually has time for plans with his other partner Dave (26M). It feels like Will’s very… on-and-off, like one minute I want to cry and he strips me of that affection he gave me and completely ignores my texts, but the next minute he makes me laugh and he meets all my needs and is completely attentive to everyone in the room, even or especially me.