If it helps, I just went along this comment chain and I think they’re honestly trying to provide constructive criticism. I don’t see bad intent. A lack of tact, though? Yeah. Definitely.
Also, I see you’re going through some shit. I’ve seen some of your posts and know you’re also dealing with chronic illness. If you need to chat by phone or online, I’m available. Even if you don’t take me up on it now, the offer stands, any time. It’s tough to deal with even when it doesn’t seem like the world is so unstable, so we’ve all gotta stick together.
It’s something many/most of struggle with. It’s not a death sentence or a stain on your character or some kind of moral flaw.
It’s just how you communicate. It’s not conducive for true connection with others. That’s all I’m saying
I only started realizing it about me like the last 2 years. I never used to actually try and connect with people… like I’m doing now. Sucks it under these circumstances, but that’s life
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If it helps, I just went along this comment chain and I think they’re honestly trying to provide constructive criticism. I don’t see bad intent. A lack of tact, though? Yeah. Definitely.
Also, I see you’re going through some shit. I’ve seen some of your posts and know you’re also dealing with chronic illness. If you need to chat by phone or online, I’m available. Even if you don’t take me up on it now, the offer stands, any time. It’s tough to deal with even when it doesn’t seem like the world is so unstable, so we’ve all gotta stick together.
Those weren’t meant as insults bro.
It’s something many/most of struggle with. It’s not a death sentence or a stain on your character or some kind of moral flaw.
It’s just how you communicate. It’s not conducive for true connection with others. That’s all I’m saying
I only started realizing it about me like the last 2 years. I never used to actually try and connect with people… like I’m doing now. Sucks it under these circumstances, but that’s life
I’m free all day man