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minus-squaredullbananas (Joseph Silva)@lemmy.caOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2arrow-down9·29 days agoThey did not say it respectfully. If this happened to someone else, then I would feel an obligation to take action. That comment is very opposite to my vision for the community.
minus-squareentropicdrift@lemmy.sdf.orglinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3arrow-down3·edit-229 days agoRespect, like trust, is earned, never demanded and is easily lost. You can make others fear you with force, but if they do they’ll never properly respect you. Talking in oblique metaphors like the way you did to the person you banned won’t help them learn from their mistake either.
minus-squaredullbananas (Joseph Silva)@lemmy.caOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2arrow-down4·29 days agoLinus Torvalds might have been a bad influence on you
minus-squareentropicdrift@lemmy.sdf.orglinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·29 days agoDid what I say remind you of him? I thought he was primarily famous for abusive language.
They did not say it respectfully. If this happened to someone else, then I would feel an obligation to take action. That comment is very opposite to my vision for the community.
Respect, like trust, is earned, never demanded and is easily lost.
You can make others fear you with force, but if they do they’ll never properly respect you.
Talking in oblique metaphors like the way you did to the person you banned won’t help them learn from their mistake either.
Linus Torvalds might have been a bad influence on you
Did what I say remind you of him? I thought he was primarily famous for abusive language.