Took me a while to figure out too! Turns out, it's easier for the smaller person to be a big spoon.
If you're larger than your partner, lay lower in the bed compared to your partner. Your face should be at their back. Pull that cushion down with you to help your neck. If they curl up a little, your arm can bend a bit forwards as it ends up at their legs, and it won't fall asleep at all.
Donny can try to make sweet deals as much as he likes. Factor in whatever bullshit he comes up with. The world is too dependent on the USA to say no to a lot of it. Most of us other fountries have to dance to his tune to some extent... For now.
What America lost is our collective trust. No one is going to want an American military base in their country for a long time after this. No one wants them to keep the sweet deals Donny negotiates. No one wants to see the USA win anymore.
Donny is an idiot who destroyed more in a 100 days than he is capable of comprehending.
Have you considered looking overseas?
In Europe, it doesn't seem that hard to find an SE job right now.