I think we agree on most of the points here, and now we're just getting defensive about tone, and details.
I was just trying to point out that nothing has a way it is supposed to be. There is what things are, and there is what we want. Yes you can use many of the features of our language to convince people of your opinion.
I myself don't like the idea of personifying the planet then imbuing it with opinions so I made the comment I did.
Not even a little bit. I fully believe humans are causing climate change. It is going to make life as we know it on this planet completely different in the very near future.
I still think the planet itself doesn't give a shit, and claiming there is a way it is "supposed to be" is pretty narrow minded.
There is a shoe store where I used to live named Red's Shoe Barn. I was always hoping the correct lights would fail to make their sign read "ed's hoe Bar". To my knowledge it never happened, but I don't know.
What about phrasing it so the effort isn't on you, but them?
"I've never really felt comfortable around [describe group]". This way, the failure isn't yours to get comfortable, but on them to mwake you comfortable.
I have a whiteboard in my kitchen. Amongst other things, on it I keep a list of perishable foods that we have on hand. When I am trying to figure out what I am going to cook, I can look at the list and not have to think about every ingredient I own, And only focus on things that will go off soon. I usually don't include the common items we tend to go through often.
Sometimes I also include leftovers that need to be finished, and unusual ingredients I bought impulsively because I thought I wanted to try making something new but than lost focus/motivation to actually make something with them.
It's not a great system, but it helps me waste less.
I live in a fairly urban neighborhood in the US and I adopted a dog a week ago. In that week I have learned that the places I'm allowed to bring said dog are practically nowhere.
Similar to cyclists, we are just trying to make use of whatever leftover space we've been allowed to use.
If you are used to driving a manual, you don't rest your foot on the foot rest area, you keep it just about to push the clutch. Also, saying the brake pedal is the full width of two pedals is wrong, but it is certainly wider. I have gone for the clutch in an automatic once and just barely caught the edge of the brake pedal. The results were very confusing, and without exaggerating it took me 5-10 seconds to figure out what I had done. It was while driving my mom's car with her in it and she looked at me with the most "what the fuck are you doing?" look she has ever made.
This was all over twenty years ago but yes, it is definitely possible.
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