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2 days agoI mean, labels are all shorthand for others to understand your lived experience, yeah? Some people who are non-binary call themselves trans, some don’t, and both groups are equally valid. Some people who are non-binary live comfortably with the same gender presentation as what they got assigned at birth, and that’s just as valid. Ditto for binary people, trans or otherwise.
Who you are inside you is what’s important, the rest is just stuff to help others get an idea of it if/when you choose to share.
People might assume that sure, but you can also always add more context and clarify if you want. It’s always up to you what you want to share about yourself. There’s also a lot of overlap between transfem experiences and other groups, it’s not like one group has a monopoly on everything they experience. Plenty of cis women wear thigh highs, for example, and some cis men even.
The trans flag is cute! i like it a bunch too.