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  • but always follow the rules!

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  • I never trust a person who debates transgender topics and says teenagers are "technically" a kid

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  • On the topic of true trans being in childhood, I'm just figuring it out in my 30s. I do have memories of the feelings all the way back to when I was 4 or 5, which gives me relief, but also, who cares?

    Even if someone's gender identity changes when they are older, who cares if they transition? Who cares if they do it just because they think they'll like it? Who cares if they do it just to try it out? Also, with non-binary folk and gender nonconforming folk coming out, it suddenly truly doesn't matter if someone is "real" anymore. Our current understanding and categorizations just don't cut it anymore.

    I would have loved being able to grow up in this generation and having the chance to explore my gender. To say that kids don't know or can't tell is such hogwash -- my brain has only ever pushed me in one direction on this topic and everything else has been conscious effort to fit into the box I was told to. Now, in transition, I'm finding people just want me to jump into the other box. Gender is much more complex than the binary makes it out to be and I think a lot of anti trans sentiment is over the fact that trans people make it clear that gender is very important and way more complex than society writ large makes it out to be.

    Sorry for the rambling thoughts!

  • Raising a flag

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  • Yeah, I remember feeling like it was weird, but both of those sound absolutely fine to me now.

    I also would never balk at "female" as an adjective in those cases, nor assume the speaker was being misogynist.

  • Raising a flag

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  • Woman as an adjective is picking up in my circles and podcasts I listen to. Woman scientist, woman entrepreneur. It may have sounded weird initially, but I've gotten over it and I suspect it will develop over time to be completely normal.

    I wouldn't really compare it to the male/man counterpart, because men aren't demeaned by being called "male" regularly.

  • De-fund the Tone Police

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  • Heck yeah! Just had a person tell me that they think the climate protests that target museums are heinous and I was just speechless as to how you can be so short sighted.

    If the world burns, so will the art.

  • Illegal Streams Let Criminals In

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  • You wouldn't download a torrent

  • Looking for a good representation of an autistic character in NT social settings. Any recommendations?

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  • Main character of dungeon meshi / delicious in dungeon

  • Hacked ‘AI Girlfriend’ Data Shows Prompts Describing Child Sexual Abuse

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  • Ah, pardon my misunderstanding. I thought the two paragraphs weren't related.

  • Hacked ‘AI Girlfriend’ Data Shows Prompts Describing Child Sexual Abuse

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  • I know this isn't necessarily helpful, but 404media has an account wall, not a paywall. You authenticate by email without a password.

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  • Aria app for Misskey

  • Man charged with allegedly assaulting mail carrier delivering 'Harris for President' mailer

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  • A literal case of "don't shoot the messenger".

  • Casual Games to Play During a Call

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  • My wife calls these her "high games":

    • Donut county
    • Katamari
    • Unpacking
    • Luna's fishing garden

    Mine:

    • Goat Simulator
    • Gorillaz Geep flash game (I could play this for hours and there is no goal, just feels like driving in GTA without consequence)
    • Starstruck Vagabond

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    We met at a bar

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  • Ok boomer

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    We met at a bar

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  • Used to be you could make a Lemmy comment explaining how something doesn't meet your values without some guy going 'round the thread saying, "kids these days, all so sensitive! Whatever happened to not being offended!" When did this happen? I swear it was recently.

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    Ontario government eyes restricting bike lanes on city streets

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  • This is clearly something that should be done on a case-by-case basis and not a hard and fast rule. I hate my provincial government.

    Oh well, at least I can buy beer in corner stores now. /s

  • Reminder that Hamas is in Control Because Israel Doesn’t Want to Negotiate with a Moderate Government in Palestine

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  • Appreciate you. Thank you.

  • Reminder that Hamas is in Control Because Israel Doesn’t Want to Negotiate with a Moderate Government in Palestine

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  • What is the photo of?

  • Rule

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  • Not trying to stoke the flames here, but genuinely curious what phenomenon the meme is pointing too? Again, not trying to come from a place of concern trolling or anything. Please don't bully me~~~

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  • Impatient [Transfem]

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  • Just googled and T is said to make the nipples darker and shrink the areolas quite quickly, so yes!

    I am assuming the comic/caption is transfem because folks tend to socially transition before starting hormones.