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sarah2653

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  • how many of you buy stilettos / shoes online?

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  • can't she fill the forms and take the package to a post office alone?

  • how many of you buy stilettos / shoes online?

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  • no bans so far?

  • Ladies, would you advise buying half a size smaller than your usual one for high heeled sandals?

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  • but if its the wrong size it going to stay the wrong size no matter what you do.

    I was afraid of that.

  • Ladies, would you advise buying half a size smaller than your usual one for high heeled sandals?

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  • correct, half a size smaller. Title corrected.

    I want them to be as versatile as possible, so both events only and all day long. Would the smaller size be a problem?

    I can buy em, test em for 4 weeks and return if not happy with them

  • Ladies, would you advise buying half a size smaller than your usual one for high heeled sandals?

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  • nice, a cobbler :D

    shoe size is largely a suggestion.

    does this mean the same nominal size can mean differences larger than half an inch in length? 0.25 in?

    In this case, the seller provides both the sizing and the shoe's length, explicitly stating to trust the length more than the sizing, that's why I'm giving it a shot.

    It is possible to stretch shoes

    Now I'm curious. How would you stretch this stiletto sandal? see below

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    Ladies, would you advise buying half a size smaller than your usual one for high heeled sandals?

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    sarah2653 @lemmy.ml

    why is radical acceptance not being a spineless conformist?

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    sarah2653 @lemmy.ml

    why is radical acceptance not being a spineless conformist?

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    sarah2653 @lemmy.ml

    Is the world actually worse than it was 25 years ago, or does it just feel that way because I'm now more aware of how dysfunctional and cruel everything seems?

  • what's a good answer to placate the c-suite if you're accused of lacking motivation and being unfriendly?

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  • as much as I'd love to use this line, this would put a huge mark on my back, at least where I work at.

    surprising how thin skinned some people are.

    updating my cv as of now...

  • what's a good answer to placate the c-suite if you're accused of lacking motivation and being unfriendly?

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  • this is even better than I won’t apologise for having a growth mindset.

    good advice, also using it

  • what's a good answer to placate the c-suite if you're accused of lacking motivation and being unfriendly?

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  • I won’t apologise for having a growth mindset.

    this is perfect! I'm using it

  • what's a good answer to placate the c-suite if you're accused of lacking motivation and being unfriendly?

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  • Ren, don't waste your time with null, he's completely reactive at this point, unable to see how he contradicts himself (first writing to hire only candidates who claim to be excited to be part of your team because I want to learn all I can from you, immediately after writing Everyone lies in interviews).

    projecting

  • what's a good answer to placate the c-suite if you're accused of lacking motivation and being unfriendly?

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  • does that work without a diagnose?

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    sarah2653 @lemmy.ml

    what's a good answer to placate the c-suite if you're accused of lacking motivation and being unfriendly?

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    sarah2653 @lemmy.ml

    what's a good answer to placate the c-suite if you're accused of lacking motivation and being unfriendly?

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    how come Lemmy shows more upvoted posts further down the thread instead of at the top?

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    sarah2653 @lemmy.ml

    how come Lemmy shows more upvoted posts further down the thread instead of at the top?

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    do you consider joking about dying and killing oneself a sign that the person saying it is troubled?

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    sarah2653 @lemmy.ml

    do you consider joking about dying and killing oneself a sign that the person saying it is troubled?

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    this 82 year old woman dressing like she was 40 or younger makes me think about how ridiculous I'll look like when and if I reach that age. Am I misguided?

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    how did you and your partner change after having a baby?

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    sarah2653 @lemmy.ml

    how did you and your partner change after having a baby?

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    how do I avoid becoming conformist, lazy and completely incapable of learning something new?

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    how do I avoid becoming conformist, lazy and completely incapable of learning something new?

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    What are polite ways to cut a conversation after time box chatting?

  • is this how extroverts function?

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  • could yo describe why it made you miserable? To me a job is something I do for money, not because I need friends. There are bars and clubs to meet people.

  • is this how extroverts function?

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  • thanks for answering.

    I guess I could play a small social experiment and see how people react before I change workplaces and decide if I can and want to keep placating people this way?

    Notice that I get along with some coworkers. With these ones I don’t need to play theatrics. It’s the loud, yelling ones with no boundaries the ones that grind my gears and make me want to run for life.

  • is this how extroverts function?

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  • I'm not so sure myself. I want to be me and choose who I open up to but sadly this society is run by extroverts. Not many of them understand that some people work better in silence and are not interested in their lives. They act like I hate them but what I feel is indifference. Some of them are reeeeally thin skinned.

    I guess I could play a small social experiment and see how people react before I change workplaces and decide if I can keep placating people this way?

    Notice that I get along with some coworkers. With them I don't need to play theatrics. It's the loud, yelling ones the ones that grind my gears and make me want to run for life.

  • is this how extroverts function?

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  • People are assholes; Ignore 90% of what they say, if possible. Just be yourself. It’s the best person you could possibly be.

    I'm surprised to see that your post has been upvoted. Usually the shy, quiet ones are mistaken for arrogant jerks and get bullied and downvoted by the extroverts.

    I'm actually conflicted because on one hand I want to be me, my freedom above everything else, I choose my friends and the people I open up to and otoh I wonder if I should play theatrics for short bursts of time (like 2 minutes) to placate some coworker's fragile egos.

    My teenager self with my parents were like yours: open up, talk more, you are not normal (yup, my father told me that). They bullied me and I tried that for a week, extremely tiring and ridiculous to talk to them about stupid sh*t I don't care about just to please the needy extroverts, but obviously I would go back to my normal self, because they are so tiring. My parents didn't respect me, same as these needy coworkers now.

    It doesn't make any sense trying to change a person's personality. So sad that extroverts feel we do this because we hate them.

    I still don't know what the ideal solution is, or if there's an ideal solution.

    thanks for your post and good luck to you.

  • is this how extroverts function?

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  • I’m here to get shit done and collect my paychecks, not to have ‘emotional experiences’ every day with everyone.

    this. so.much.this

    I expect communications to be productive, not ‘emotional’. I’m just an IC, not the company’s counsellor.

    as much as I'd like to use this line, if I do where I work now, a meltdown will ensue with the drama queens at my workplace yelling at me.

    And then I'll be labelled not a team player.

  • is this how extroverts function?

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  • I will time it. Thanks

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  • I don’t have any answers, but you do have my sympathy.

    thank you

    can only say it pays to learn how to force a smile, even if it feels insincere.

    I'm a terrible actor and I hate phony people.

  • is this how extroverts function?

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  • If you just say “hello” back then they are usually satisfied.

    sadly, that's not the case where I am. They always want more.

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  • They take offense because “wanting nothing from them” implies that they have nothing to offer.

    but some of them do have something to offer: job experience and know how, but they fixate on gossiping and badmouthing other coworkers when they're not around.

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    is this how extroverts function?