You wrote this all a lot better than I could have, but to expand on 2) I have no desire whatsoever to have a "conversation" (nay, argument) with a machine to try and convince/coerce/deceive/brow-beat (delete as appropriate) it into maybe doing what I wanted.
I don't want to deal with this grotesque "tee hee, oopsie" personality that every company seems to have bestowed on these awful things when things go awry, I don't want its "suggestions". I code, computer does. End of transaction.
People can call me a luddite at this point and I'll wear that badge with pride. I'll still be here, understanding my data and processes and writing code to work with them, long after (as you say) you've been priced out of these tools.
Often it's attached to a motor, but the pointy end hasn't changed much.
Certainly juicing the likes of apples or carrots warrants a different kind of appliance, but squashing citrus is a fairly solved problem.