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pleasestopasking

@ pleasestopasking @reddthat.com

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  • Removed

    I got a VPO against me, how fucked am I?

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  • I've been actively suicidal before and it sucks, so I'm not gonna give you any "permanent solution to a temporary problem" bullshit. But what I learned in my extensive research is that it's really hard to effectively kill yourself. If anything goes sideways, it's pretty likely that you not only won't die but your life will be way way worse. You think you're unhirable now, just wait until you have a hypoxic brain injury.

    As the kids on tiktok were saying for a bit: suicide is cringe, don't kill yourself

    Do you have anyone in your life you trust to talk to about this?

  • Why are drivers for food delivery apps so often listed wrong?

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  • What kinda of things get them banned arbitrarily?

  • Man able to see again through his tooth

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  • Grow your tooth into an eye while it's implanted in your cheek. Totally normal

  • Overwhelmed with work

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  • I'm currently in "do a week's worth of work in 2 days" hyperfocus. Building up my nest egg for the next time my brain says I need to spend several days spending less than 15 minutes on actual work.

  • The Death of Partying in the U.S.A.—and Why It Matters

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  • "The typical female pet owner spends more time actively engaged with her pet than she spends in face-to-face contact with friends of her own species."

    And?

  • Lawson now sells old rice as “vintage” onigiri in Japan

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  • Why is rice being stockpiled but not cycled out?

  • I don't know if I should tell the girl I'm seeing this...

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  • I think sometimes it's easy to think that if you love someone, not telling them something about yourself is lying by omission. But it's okay to have inside thoughts. You don't have to volunteer every single thing about your inner life. And doing so, especially unsolicited about a strange porn preference, can really signal that you're not a person with good judgement.

    Is this... interest... a major part of your life? Are you spending hours a day spanking it to this stuff? Is it affecting other areas of your life? If not, just keep it up yourself.

    Maybe one day she'll ask what your fantasies or porn preferences are in an attempt to spice things up or cater to your sexual interests. At that point you can decide. And if you want to tell her, you can preface it by saying you're a bit embarrassed about it so she doesn't laugh.

  • Tip for Monday

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  • Actually not joking, six or seven years ago I stopped apologizing for "delayed replies. Maybe if it's really heinous, but if it's a week or less (or I was on vacation!), it's "thank you for your patience!" I'm not going to apologize for not busting my ass above my pay grade. Also how many things at most jobs actually need an immediate reply?

    I got a 5/5 on my annual review this year, I'm good at my job, but I'm not going to apologize for not replying to every email every day when I'm actually trying to get work done.

  • Tweek says hi .

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  • Look at those l o o o o o o o o o n g whiskers

  • Perpetual stew vibes

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  • Yep, which is why of you ever want to strip and re-season cast iron, you use a lye bath with some electrolysis magic. Do that once and you'll see why back in the lye soap days, you want weren't supposed to wash them.

  • We Built This City!

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  • It's not really a blogging platform, it's a content management system.

  • We Built This City!

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  • A Quick Ride On One Of The Most Unique E-Bikes You Can Buy For Under $3,500 - The Autopian

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  • Seriously. I love bikes, ebikes, and scooters, but this is just corny as hell

  • Designer makes torpedo shaped beer bottle for drinking on the beach

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  • They leave them or worse, bury them. Then someone steps on one and gets an ER trip.

  • How much of a deal breaker would be a high body count for you?

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  • What if they had sex with 1000 people willingly and enjoyed it, but weren't in love with all of those people?

  • Gary

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  • Let us see them bean sprouts

  • What did a teacher do that earned your respect?

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  • Damn though like, we don't need to denigrate people in food service. Some people do it because they didn't have other options, some people actually like it and are good at it. And either way I bet that teacher wouldn't like if there wasn't anyone who's worked in food service.

  • I regret nothing

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  • Yeah definitely, scruffing itself is fine! But like you said, you gotta get more skin in it, and you need to support the rest of their body. It's a good way to get them to stop wiggling for whatever you need to do, but it's not a way to carry them.

  • I regret nothing

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    • A common misconception is that ferrets are nocturnal. They're not, but they're also not diurnal–they sleep 20 hours a day. They wake up throughout the day to eat, shit, and wreak havoc and then spend the rest of it passed the fuck out.
    • ferret comes from the Latin "little thief" which makes a lot of sense if you've ever spent time with one. They love to steal things and hide them in a stash pile–mine tore a hole in the fabric on the bottom of the couch to put their treasures deep in the underbelly. They favorite things to hide are whatever you really need at that moment. Don't leave your keys laying around.
    • the noise a ferret makes when they're excited is called dooking.
    • Ferrets bite HARD. It's not because they are mean, but because they themselves have extremely thick skin and biting is a part of play. If a ferret bites you, you have to yelp and stop playing with them–that's what their peers do when they bite too hard. This is easier to train when they're kits.
    • A lot of ferrets are pretty easy to litter train because they naturally back up into a corner to poop. That said, sometimes they will tell you which corner the litter box needs to be moved to.

    I have so many more good god.