oh, yeah, sober still! I know it would be terrible to give in now, given my tendency to fall down the alcohol hole again. For the moment it’s not hard at all, actually, but I often reflect on how badly I would handle the situation if I hadn’t quit drinking.

being Belgian, I have to pass on a lot of good beers, tho, but I need to be able to control myself first before even thinking about an occasional drink.

I just lost my job and been sober for almost six months. This speaks to me

Strong question to ask someone named “DeathByBigSad”

Hope OP can talk to someone and pull through. There’s always people that can help and want to listen!

Mainly iOS since I got (and often need, because of camera) for my job. Lineage on my second phone that I mainly use at home. No sim tho, more of an entertainment/“home system” phone. No google installed or logged in. Just a different approach to differentiate my phone use at home

edit: forget to add “since I got an iPhone” in the first sentence

du bist Beamter?

Belgian checking in!

let me introduce the Dutch to you … Every corner of the world you’ll find a Dutch tourist.

Cat Verstappen

just like they forced reels on everyone by pushing it in the algorithm to later say “see! everyone wants reels now, they don’t want photos anymore!”

I graduated in '21, moved in with my gf at the same time, started working (to afford rent and surviving, you know) and bought a house last year. But go off I guess. I have bills to pay and hate cars as the sole method of transportation at the same time, it’s amazing! Even have my driver’s license since I was 18 (9 years already, how time flies). Crazy concept.

I’ll go have fun with reading a good book now. Cheerio!

beaten by bureaucracy; or, a tale of efficient government inefficiency in the 21st century

Oh no, rising food prices could be real. But that doesn’t mean other things should be expensive as well. There is always a chance to cut personal costs elsewhere - like transportation, for instance.

What I do believe is that it could be the thing that’s needed to push for better infrastructure and public transportation, but that won’t happen if you just look at it as if you’re only a victim and can’t do anything about it. If people can get vocal and push their (local) government to look at alternatives, you could achieve a lot. If you just want to sulk in a corner acting like “oh it’s bad and there’s nothing that can be done”, then you’re the narrow minded one. Look at the opportunity it brings and that could be solved in the medium/long term. Okay, you have a short term problem, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be solved. You said in another comment “because alternate options just pop up over night”. No, they don’t, but if you expect every problem to be fixed over night, you’re gonna have a very difficult life.

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plus, certain places - like the city where I live, for example - opt for infrastructure and traffic rules that favour cyclists and pedestrians. that also helps

yeah, let’s keep things just the way they are and stop hoping that societal changes can be a motor for improvement

all I’m saying is there aren’t alternatives YET, but situations like this could create a positive change in mindset and eventually infrastructure as well. fine by me if you want to be a glass-half-empty kind of person

have no other option yet

keeping the americans where they belong

sometimes I’m really glad that I’m European

but, and I realise this might be a bit utopian, the more people (have to) use alternative modes of transportation, the more the need for better infrastructure will grow. domino effect and all that

Taylor???