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Cake day: June 15th, 2023

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  • I’ve been following your hike through the Canadian Rockies over the past few weeks. I’ve been particularly interested because I was there myself earlier this year. Here’s a piece of Bow Lake when it was a little bit colder:

    Many of those footprints in the distance are mine walking on the very frozen Bow Lake. If you happened to have a shot you’ve taken during these warmer times from around the same spot, I’d love to compare side by side. My shot is right off the Ice Field Parkway.






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    3 days ago

    Long ago I ran a Windows Media Center PC in the living room and used the hell out of it. When WMC finally went EOL, I look for alternatives and found Plex. I never got around to setting up a Plex box, and now I see it too is ready for the scrap heap. I think this is what getting old is. You plan on doing something and never get around to it. Time passes much faster up here in age.




  • Not far away we had what everyone called “Big Butter Jesus” or “Touchdown Jesus”:

    The “Big Butter” part comes from the region’s fascination with making butter sculptures:

    The “Touchdown” name, for those that don’t know USA Football (Grid Iron), this is the same gesture the referee makes to signal a valid goal:

    However, after being around for years, Touchdown Jesus is no more. I’m not making this up, it was struck by lightning and being made of fiberglass, burned to the ground.




  • I do try to contribute to making the world better.

    I do this too, but I’ve found that the far more accessible and long reaching positive impacts are actions of little nudges from a slight negative state to a slight positive one. The mental visual I use is like a meteor is on a collision course with Earth, if you change its path ever so slightly when its far far away from Earth, you’ll avoid the catastrophe. The amount of effort and energy is tiny at that point, but the benefit is immeasurably large.

    So what do these nudges look like? It could be as little as thanking someone for something they don’t expect to get thanked for. It could be being a customer and calling a manager over to compliment a worker’s efforts and make sure they get recognized. It could be stopping on the side of the road when someone is having car trouble. It could be seeing someone left some personal belonging when they left, and call out to them or chase after them to let them know, or even just turning in a valuable item to lost and found fully intact. Sometimes its just letting someone know that they’ve been heard or that they’re not alone, or that you appreciate that they exist in this world. None of these things require superpowers or immeasurable wealth. Its little nudges you can push the universe back toward the positive against all the negative going on today.


  • I wonder how the typical conservative voter thinks this kind of thing is going to help them?

    Many are older without children in schools anymore and are happy they are not “paying to teach other people’s kids” even though they themselves were the recipients of older Americans paying for them to go through public schools. Others are rich paying to send their kids to private schools or rich enough to pay to send them to religious school so they too are happy to not fund public schools. The last group are poor conservatives that can’t afford private schools and have children in public schools. This group are “temporarily embarrassed millionaires” that aren’t bothered because they’ll be sending their kids to private schools “real soon now”. They are just happen to be invited to the meetings tearing down society and the safety nets that sustain them everyday.




  • Your description sounds like you’re a parent and she’s a child. That may be accurate in the sense that all her life she had other people providing for her, and now she’s make you be that person without your consent.

    It sounds like you’re past the point you need to make a change. A hard conversation with her has to be hand. Something like:

    “I love you, but I simply don’t have the resources to support two adults, and in trying, I’m drowning. As much as I love you, I can’t afford this place we live in without a paying roommate. I’ve used all my resources to buy you time to become that paying roommate again, and I’m running on empty. I have to ask you to move your stuff out of your room as I’m advertising for a new roommate this week. Right now you still have a roof over your head. I can let you sleep on the couch for the next two weeks to give you some time to sort out a path forward for yourself, but you’ll have to move most of your stuff out of the apartment and store it elsewhere. If there were another path I could see how we could keep doing what we’re doing, I’d take it in a heartbeat, but I’m this close to being homeless myself even while still employed. I’m sorry it has to be this way and I’ve done everything I can to make it not so, but we’re at a point where we have no other options.”

    I’m sorry you’re going through this.



  • Now he’s going the other direction to act like the good guy and fighting against Trump.

    Who will believe he is the good guy? He pissed off liberals when he abandoned green initiatives and threw his lot in with climate changers. Then he pissed off conservatives when he had his war of words with the orange turd. Moderate Republicans that may oppose trump are put off by Musk’s antics and insistence of introducing internet humor into business dealings and products.

    He has no supporters anymore and any group he’s trying to court wants nothing to do with him.