naught101

Sorry, I don't have any specific reccs, last time I listen to grief related stuff was years ago. There's a shitload though, there's probably some a best-list somewhere on the 'net.

Sounds pretty rough! Sorry to hear that

In my experience, grief comes in waves, and they slowly diffuse and get weaker and further apart. So it will slow at some point, and then it will come back again, but less intense, and that will repeat until it fades into the background of your mind.. Sorry I can't suggest a timeframe, that's too context dependant.

Something else I've found useful is listening to podcasts about grief - there are quite a few of them, and the wisdom is pretty transferrable, and it has that good vibe of feeling like there are others out there who get it.

That's what caveats are for. Also if it's a dodgy source, people will definitely let you know. Unsourced information may as well be misinformation.

Why is hanging out for a long time bad, as long as you continue drinking?

My personal conspiracy theory is that bars have bad acoustics so that you have to shout, so that you get a sore throat, so that you feel like you need to drink more.

Eh, what's bad for capitalists is what's good for the rest of us

What is reddit speak?

Isn't this what peertube is for?

Idk, it probably has an open backdoor somewhere

I graduated at 22. And at 27. And at 28. And at 34.

TBH the whole time I was there there were people there older than me, and they often had lots of useful experience that gave them interesting perspectives. Shit is not a race. Quality over quantity.

It rewrites links so they point to the archive. I guess the instance URL just got caught up in that..

Very different feeling... I guess if you had the absolute worst railroading DM it might be similar..

Yeah! I was thinking a heartfelt card, but a letter might be even better.

Yeah, best politics of any centralised social media by a long shot.

Also, threatening to do it is plausible just because texts relating to that are present in the training data. It doesn't mean that an LLM actually knows what blackmail is, let alone is capable of doing anything about it.

Those are all great books/stories. But they are all off the mark for the AI bubble.

The book you wanna read is John Steinbeck's The Grapes Of Wrath.

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When do the grief nightmares stop?

When do the grief nightmares stop?

Heinously Unethical

Heinously Unethical

Huh?

Huh?

Digg launches its new Reddit rival to the public

Digg launches its new Reddit rival to the public

I've found the problem in my espresso machine. Should I fix the part, or buy a new one?

what are your free, favorite video hosting site for lemmy uploadss

Bose open-sources its SoundTouch home theater smart speakers ahead of end-of-life

is it embarrassing to graduate college at 24?

Whats the most Fediverse "Thing" you know of?

Is this common in the rpg space?

Last-minute Xmas Gift Ideas for me (very poor) to get my aunt+family (very well off) who have been helping me out during a very rough time?

Whats the most Fediverse "Thing" you know of?

Sooo... This is happening on Imgur

TIL: A study found that all major AI models, deployed in a hypothetical corporate environment, tend to blackmail employees or act against company goals if faced with shutdown or failure.

TIL: A study found that all major AI models, deployed in a hypothetical corporate environment, tend to blackmail employees or act against company goals if faced with shutdown or failure.

Crucial is shutting down — because Micron wants to sell its RAM and SSDs to AI companies instead

WTF, Harris Farm

What recent books or articles have shifted your worldview?

Mild curse: Every time you leave the house you remember you forgot something kind of important, at exactly the distance away where it is impossible to decide whether it's worth going back to get it

Board games with emergent complexity?

Pro-Trump Cuban Rapper El Funky About to Be Deported

Floods in Australia

Trapped residents watch water rise amid record NSW flooding | ABC News

If you could explain to your 19 year old self what you are doing with your life today, what would they say?

"Suggest a community" community?

What's the point of /c/economics?

What is the shittest beer in Australia?

c/complexity - a community focused on Complexity and systems thinking on Lemmy.World

A positive message/mission statement for Mastodon

Why didn't this deletion appear in the modlog?