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monkeyman512

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  • Is it possible for us with ADHD to date an avoidant?

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  • Both me and my partner have ADHD. Both of us deal with the things you shared. One of us is more avoidant and one of us is more anxious. Does this create problems and challenging times, yes. But we are both committed to communicating the best we can, growing, and improving. We have been together about 20 years. I think any relationship has a chance when both sides are willing to at least match the effort of the other side.

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    New Community Rule: "No low-effort posts. This is subjective and will largely be determined by the community member reports."

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  • I can understand the potential problems of trying to define "low-effort post". In contrast can guidelines be given for a "quality post". If no guidance on either end is given it may discourage some people from posting anything. Maybe people can contribute what they see as indications of a "quality post".

  • When a Discovery fan complains about rabid Trekkies attacking them for not hating the new show

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  • The "your not my real dad!" relationship with Vulcans at the started didn't help either.

  • It makes me angry when other people don't understand how much my partner struggles with my ADHD

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  • I suspect that people may have a hard time integrating what you are telling them because they can't relate to the experience. I know what I personally do is try to find experiences in my life that help me understand what a person is feeling. Maybe an opportunity to help them work through a similar process will occur to help them "get it".

  • Framework stops selling separate DDR5 RAM modules to fight scalpers

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  • I don't see how it would push manufacturers to do that. I can see how it would make consumers more open to soldered RAM if RAM is so expensive there is no way you are going to upgrade it later. But, I would be interested to get your thoughts as I miss stuff that feels obvious I'm hindsight all the time.

  • I guess my marriage is history

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  • Couples counseling, do it. Worst case scenario things still don't work out and you divorce with the knowledge that you sincerely tried to repair things. Also you will have learned and grown from the experience. Best case scenario you both work through some difficult things with help and started repairing the relationship.

    My guess is that both of you are exhausted. It is really hard to have optimism when don't even have the energy for things you enjoy.

  • Solitude

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  • I wonder if it is masking? You have to spend so much effort masking for other people it is draining. But there are some people you don't feel to need to mask for so being with them can be relaxing.

  • How to work on a single hobby for a long time with adhd and without meds?

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  • Why do you need to be like "normal people"? This is a serious question you really should spend time thinking about. Understanding your own motivations is important.

  • Portland Japanese Gardens, Portland, Oregon

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  • Once inside elevation change is not much, but walking up the hill from the road may be challenging for people with disabilities or very out of shape.

  • Do you have people around you that think they have ADHD but they clearly dont, or have it at a much lower level than you?

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  • That is because the characteristics that make up ADHD are normal human features. Having ADHD just means your settings are far enough outside what most people have that it interferes with your ability to function inside the cultural expectations that work for most people.

  • MIT Neuroscientist Proposes Brain Waves are the Hidden Engine Behind Thought and Consciousness

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  • Updated my comment with link.

  • MIT Neuroscientist Proposes Brain Waves are the Hidden Engine Behind Thought and Consciousness

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  • Updated my comment with link.

  • MIT Neuroscientist Proposes Brain Waves are the Hidden Engine Behind Thought and Consciousness

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  • Thanks. Updated my comment.

  • MIT Neuroscientist Proposes Brain Waves are the Hidden Engine Behind Thought and Consciousness

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  • Thanks. Updated my comment.

  • THIS is real. There is an app that allows you to text with Jesus

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  • Yeah. Basically just acting as a pretty good search engine to find relevant quotes.

  • MIT Neuroscientist Proposes Brain Waves are the Hidden Engine Behind Thought and Consciousness

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  • Seems plausible. Reminds me of an article from long ago where a person used a training algorithm to get an FPGA to produce the behavior he wanted. The upside being that he got the behavior he wanted using less of the FPGAs capacity then a normally designed circuit would require. The downside was that it wasn't reproducible on other FPGA chips. Whatever made it work required the subtle unique variations of that specific piece of silicon.

    Edit: Thanks to tips from peoples comments I found it: https://www.damninteresting.com/on-the-origin-of-circuits/

  • [Discussion] Should this community also cover the Steam Machine and/or Steam Frame?

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  • Feels like the more accurate name moving forward would be "SteamOS Hardware".

  • Just imagining Trip with Rod Stewart's hair

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  • I liked the first version. I remember them changing it later and not liking the change.

  • Anyone else feel like this is their standard rate of progress on projects?

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  • I go with the 80/20 rule. The first 80% of a task takes 20% of the time. The last 20% of the task takes 80% of the time.