Last two shows I watched were Anohana and Kaiji S2. And now I'm rewatching Azumanga Daioh without subs as listening practice.
Three very different shows, but I've never really thought about whiplash that way. I'm just done one show and onto the next.
If you liked Frieren, I highly recommend Violet Evergarden . It has very similar themes in how the protagonist is out of touch with humanity, but learns and grows through those around her. (Skip the second movie though)
Besides that, my list of general recommendations: