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  • Echoing this: If you set out to finds someone directly, more often than not you're going to have a bad time I think. The most organic way is through self-improvement and a certain inner-peace or contentment with being on your own. Combine this with getting involved in communities of ANY sort that you find comfort or passion in, from a pick-up sports league to DnD group to renaissance festival — whatever. Start finding community, and from there organic connection is bound to occur.

    But again, it's not something you pursue directly but almost always by serendipitous, indirect means.

    For me, it was like a flip of the switch. The moment I started to focus on self-improvement and be content with being on my own was the moment I started to be invited to things; which then gave me the confidence to say, "yeah, sure I'll go." It was one of these times I met my partner, soul mate, of going on 2 decades.

    I'm very much an introvert, and my partner is extremely extroverted. She asked me out on our first date, actually lol.

  • It's like The Office meme; "They're the same picture."

    Also, more importantly, what do Meta, Google, and Apple have to do with picking tariff wars with Canada and fighting over Greenland with Denmark? Like I'm all for shitting on corporations and their pathological pursuit of profit, but I'm not yet seeing the connection.

  • Did you read Putin's own essay on his imperial fantasies? The Foundations of geopolitics; Surkov theater? Let's not pull the Glenn Greenwald blind-eye RussiaGate nonsense and pretend that russia is innocent in all this. There is an absurd amount of evidence that this is the exact goal of Putin for many, many years — particularly the fragmentation of NATO, and why he was hinging on Trump's reelection ideally to invade Ukraine in the first place. The one piece of puzzle that luckily failed and likely led to Ukraine being able to mount an effective defense against his main invasion.

    Moreover it has also been very obvious that the Republican administration, and that includes think-tanks like Heritage, have been infiltrated. There's a reason Trump is Agent Krasnov. There's a reason former Trump officials were literally imprisoned before they were pardoned for essentially spying on behalf of russia. There is a reason Putin spent a lot of time and resources seeking Trump's winning every election. There is a reason Trump is picking fights with Denmark over Greenland and right out of the gate picked a fight with our closest ally both literally and figuratively, Canada. There is no better explanation than to divide and fracture the west and to give Putin his return on his investment.

    You can even look to Hungary (and again the obsession with right-wing domestic media interest) as a proving-ground for Putin.

  • Never said it was. I said it would be wise for them to do so and ultimately in their own interest to do so, though.

  • They would be wise to caveat the security risk being only when Republicans are in power as it currently stands.

    This is much of Putin's plan to fracture long held western alliances. He sees these headlines and sees his return on investment.

  • And why? Like why would they or she do this? Just make another anonymous account if she actually cared to mod worldnews lol.

    Reddit hiding sub counts not long after someone saw member counts varying by millions wildly to me seems like the bigger controversy.

  • Nothing comes to mind for the moment but I'll just note that I never quite realized just how many services (subroutines?) are active beneath my front of consciousness until somewhat recently. Our brains really are like Inside Out with various specialties around a conference table talking, with one or more hijacking the meeting occasionally.

  • Exactly. No Newsom, and no Shapiro for the love of pasta.

    I'd take Walz or Mark Kelly if we're going to go that "cautious" bullshit any day. Shit, if we want to just automatically win then Michelle Obama should run.

    But if we want true progress, well then that's another story.

  • It's gonna be Biden! Or Pelosi! Or Hillary! That sneaky Obama...

  • I love Canadians but please don't return! Both for your safety and to send an economic message to all the shortsighted fools. It's the only way some might wake up.

  • Well at least I don't have porn in my profile but I realize I do sound like an LLM at times in my comments... Though I guess that's to be expected depending on the material they train on.

  • Absolutely! I admittedly fell for this for many years as a runner, but these days I do just some light/moderate squats, leg extensions, curls, alongside sprints/inclines, etc. and it's made a big difference! Especially in stability.

  • I'd like to suggest they may be more complementary than strictly achieving the same, which seems like why most studies suggest trying to perform a mixture. Of course, something is better than nothing relative to your interest and limitations! (eg, arthritis, joint issues, preexisting conditions etc.)

    Speaking only for myself, I definitely feel the best mentally and physically when balancing the two. And if I happen to take a break from both, boy, does my mental state nose-dive within 2 weeks.

  • This is very good, and it's also worth noting that the benefits can also come from aerobic exercise; and if your joints or back are an issue for waking/running, consider cycling or swimming. Ideally, I think one would do a mixture of both resistance training and steady-state cardio; then later, if fit enough, some HIIT. Worth noting I think that when it comes to something as intensive on the body as going through chemotherapy, strong studies suggest pretty big benefits, which would apply to anyone with energy-based issues, presumably.

    The beauty of light aerobic is that to get the benefits of increased energy, you can need only do light aerobic activity that is (a) easy to recover from, and (b) increase mitochondria count, and (c) lowers your weight which translates to a myriad of downstream benefits including less energy consumed at baseline throughout your day.

  • I was told exactly the same thing years ago but admittedly never followed up with the Endocrinologist (many reasons). Like I was surging LH, but the response in the nethers wasn't there.

    The good news is bloodwork on a later routine visit showed my T levels seemed pretty normal.

    Out of curiosity did your endocrinologist have any theories why this disruption between messaging and production was occurring?

  • I feel like I'm you about two decades behind, so this concerns me lol. I've always been thin, always high metabolism, and generally have a ton of energy.

    However I will say: The first time I've experienced true, relentless fatigue was with raising a child lol. You just can't turn your brain off and consistent, quality sleep tends to be a thing of the past. There's just damage done when you get that much consistent sleep loss. You can't just "catch up" without some damage being done, I think.

    My goals to age as best as I can (and know that I will inevitably fail at some point) is to remain pretty physically active especially in terms of aerobic exercise. I'll stick with my whole foods plant-based diet that has worked well for me for going on 20 years now, and doing my best to lower my stress with hobbies and family, etc.

  • What do you mean? Yeah I'm not one to suggest people need to be roiding up or anything, and usually low T levels is indicative of some other upstream issue whether deficiency, lack of fitness, socialization, exercise, etc., but it's worth checking with doctor.

  • I was looking into them! Basically I'm just trying to utilize what I already have with my kobalt batteries for odd-end projects and camping, etc. The price-to-performance for the XTR line that has the 21700s just isn't justifiable for my use-cases.

  • I've only recently stumbled on 18650's potential (lol) by using the 4Ah Kobalt 24v batteries for some experiments with solar, 12v loads, and inverters. Holee hell nuts. Theoretically around 44amp continuous draw in 4Ah arrangement (though I'm aiming to be well under 30 in most circumstances).

    Also need to mod kids power wheels with these.

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