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Cake day: March 9th, 2025

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  • That makes sense. When I say spite is a motivator for me, it’s always been to prove myself: “Oh you think this is too hard for someone to do? Watch me.” That sort of thing. It’s how I quit smoking many years ago, to spite those that thought I couldn’t by simply going cold turkey. Telling me I can’t do something is, or used to me, the easiest way to get me to do it to the best of my ability. Just to prove the other wrong about their assumptions about me. Maybe that voice in my head telling me to fuck being vegan is the one I need to prove wrong this time.



  • This is without a doubt the weakest area of my life. I have zero social circle. I struggle a lot with maintaining friendships online because I feel I don’t interpret the social queues “normally” (whatever that looks like), and I know zero other vegans in my community. Heck, I don’t think that upon learning I’m vegan, that I’ve ever had some say “oh such and such who is local is also vegan.” This also applies to pretty much every single aspect and struggle in my life. I don’t have a support circle. Or a social community. And I’ve put a lot of effort into trying to find them, it just doesn’t exist for someone like me in rural America. I’d move but my son is here and I can’t move him with me so yeah…