Yeah and sorry but if you fucked with one of my family members, and if I was capable, I'm going to wipe out all traces of your family, all the way back to the stone age.
Don't expect proportionate responses. We're not cavemen and that's not how it works.
You can't cherry pick. Not all Israelis agree with their government. Not all gazans agree with Hamas, their government. But they're the parties in charge.
For Palestine or for women's autonomy...pick one.