there's a pretty big difference between what you are saying, "i don't like the way they help", and what the person i responded to was saying, "they don't help and hate the poor".
you seem to be misreading the message. if you no longer have access to your email account that is linked to discord, what the hell can discord do about it? nothing. so you have to contact the email provider's customer service to get access to your email account.
this is not just reasonable, it's the only way it could work. or do you think Google customer service will help you reset your lemmy password?
Come on, dude, there is no female wage gap. It's just that men choose high-salary jobs, like doctor or lawyer, and women choose low-salary jobs, like female doctor or female lawyer.
Running a motor at or near its mechanical limit for long periods is very bad for it and also is less efficient (in terms of fuel economy). That's why cars are "capable" of 140mph, even though there is nowhere you can actually drive that fast except for race tracks.
I use Prometheus and grafana at home because i use it at work, so I'm familiar with it