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gueybana [any]

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    How do I cope with being an ugly loser?

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  • I've definitely heard lots of people whingeing about it online.

    Lol?

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    How do I cope with being an ugly loser?

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  • you live in a world in which incels and nice guys are a salient topic and yet you’ve never heard of virgin shaming?

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  • Awfully uncharitable take given what I wrote. I’m not engaging in this incel/‘’nice guy’ internet discourse bullshit.

    Btw, you know what else matters? OP’s lived experiences. You haven’t run through the entire spectrum of life, you haven’t been in his shoes, and you don’t know with certainty how to actually fix what ails him. Youmve convinced yourself that you know more than he does, that you’re better than him but what’s far likelier is that you’re luckier than he is in some way shape or form. Whatever solution your prescribe to him might even work, might be the objectively correct way to tackle things, but it’ll come immeasurably harder to him and should he get there, his success should be celebrated because he did a lot more than other people have to do.

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  • I'm going to be real with you, your finances and physical appearance matter very little to all but the most shallow 5% of people.

    I don’t understand how one can look around and come to this conclusion. Platitudes that fly against every analysis we make wrt every other topic are somehow accepted here in discussions such as dating.

    Your looks matter in dating, your material conditions matter, your race matters, your personality matters, the cards you’ve been dealt with in life matter. In fact, so much of not being lonely, having community, or having intimate relationships, comes down to things outside of your own control.

    This isn’t to say you can’t do your best to improve, even get what you want…’chance favors the prepared mind’ and ‘not trying won’t get you anywhere’ so on and so forth….but it’s also a little empowering, if nothing else, to know that some things are not your fault, that you’re going up shit creek without a paddle.

    OP wasn’t born feeling this way

    I know it's nobody's fault but my own that I'm disgusting trash.

    He was made to feel this way, and while he is trapped in a depressive cycle that makes it impossible for him to acknowledge positive moments and reaffirming thoughts, his experiences are probably not a result of isolated instances by a minority of people

  • The economy is cracking. This trend is most alarming.

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  • You and I

  • The economy is cracking. This trend is most alarming.

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  • I really don’t think the profit margins on AI atm are important for capital.

    AI is the golden goose for capital, it’s the promised land, valhalla…a cataclysmic event for life on earth materially and existentially speaking. The promise of AI is the abolition of the most cumbersome cost of every business: labor.

    Imagine the circling of wagons every time a sucdem gets publicity, but like 4000 times worse, they will coalesce around this development and they will absolutely dump all of their wealth to achieve this promise, no matter how unfeasible and illusory it is

  • US Health Care CEO, 46, Found Dead In Baltimore Hotel, Family Suspects Murder

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  • You’ve just been handed

    a preexisting condition

  • US Health Care CEO, 46, Found Dead In Baltimore Hotel, Family Suspects Murder

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  • Ay I saw the head on this fella combust in midtown just last yea.

    Happens all the time, nothing we can do

  • If you use the following words you deserve to get executed by a firing squad:

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  • Can’t have shit

  • Harvard scientist suggests what looks like a comet might be alien technology

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  • Wtf? Release the godamn epstein files

  • Americans' support for Israel's Gaza war hits record low, poll shows

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  • 8% of Democrats and 25% of independents now back Israel’s campaign in Gaza, compared to 71%

    No Dems allowed into a new found opposition to Israel because they might be doing it to punish Trump but I’m supposed to be nice to republiklanners who have never been opposed to Israel but mtg did a positive thing a single time

  • DHS' new ICE recruitment strategy: 50K signing bonuses, student loan forgiveness and Trump posters

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  • Yeah, I’d love to do this but this is a job for professional, militant leftists if anything positive were to come out of the endeavor.

  • Blackstone Real Estate Star LePatner Killed in New York Shooting

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  • We live in a shitty Ridley Scott movie without any of the cool aesthetics.

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    China Shuts Down OnlyFans, Calls It a Threat to National Morals and Social Order

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  • You mean prostitution? I’m not advocating for ‘pimpery’

  • Microsoft CEO consoles employees by saying recent layoffs are down to 'the enigma of success in an industry that has no franchise value'

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  • Someone from the magical pixie death machine of kkkapitalism explain to me what the fuck that even means

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    China Shuts Down OnlyFans, Calls It a Threat to National Morals and Social Order

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  • Before OF, the avenues women had to monetize themselves were nearly non existent or leagues more dangerous than OF. I truly don’t see how the platform is exploitative of women, relatively speaking.

  • Young, charismatic dsa member visits dc one time

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  • In a recent speech to strasserite failsons, he called Mamdani a fake leftist rich liberal while going on about real material problems young people are dealing, burying the lede that it’s actually the fault of 60 million illegal Americans, which he mentions later on in his hitler rally.

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    Hasanabi reacts to out of control racism against Indians

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    Lot’s of books/therapeutic tools focus on how to deal with self-criticism, self-doubt, negative self talk. How do you deal with external criticism and attacks from others?

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    A treatise on Dirt_Owl