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Cake day: September 15th, 2023

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  • You have very succinctly pinpointed my feelings on this, and expressed it far better than I ever could. I am feeling really put off by this person because of this, to the point where I’m starting to question whether they’ve really been a friend to me all this time, or if they’ve only been accepting of my masked self rather than my true self. Appreciate you sharing, and I hope you’re doing okay with your burnout, too. I’m going to give myself some time to think about how I want to approach this going forward.


  • I can see how that could be the case, the pathologizing based on other’s comments. It really turned me off wanting to pursue interacting with them further, especially the ‘fixing’ me part like you mentioned. My knee-jerk reaction was to ask why they were discussing me instead of themselves in a one-on-one therapy session I have no part of. I suppose I could try to explain or educate them, but I’m tired. I don’t know if I have the spoons to try to mend that perception of myself when I have other people in my life who just accept me as I am. I’ll have to really think on it. Appreciate your response, it’s validating in a way.