Around a decade ago I went to church with my parents. They don't go to a mega church but it is a large church in a Texas suburb. My mom offered to buy me a cup of coffee. I thought she was making that silly joke about "buying" me a cup because, it's a church, coffee is free right? No. She actually paid money for coffee at church. And it was a goddamned k-cup.
OMG how am I having to explain this to someone in 2025? The r-word is a slur against people with disabilities. Most of us realized like a decade ago that it's not cool to use that word.
You monster.