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@ fracture @lemmy.blahaj.zone

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  • Do we ?

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  • i feel like this comment is actually rooted in concern that talking about suicidal ideation increases it, and, while i don't have studies to support it, talking about it certainly doesn't increase the actual rate of suicide, and i believe openly talking about it lowers the barrier to people being able to get help when the thoughts actually become dangerous

    certainly, at least i've heard from plenty of people who deal with these sort of thoughts, that not being able to express them can isolate and distance them further from their friends and community (a notably more dangerous situation). so, while the increase in dialogue about suicidal ideation makes me sad, i'm at least happy that it's increasingly normal for people not to suffer in silence

    but as an aside, gatekeeping suicidal ideation is crazy lmfao

  • he/him rule

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  • Satire rule

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  • i've never understood this sort of masculinity, but i also have people who need me to be alive to continue living, and i assume that changes the math (transmasc, since i figure people will wonder, and i'm fine with this being the one thing where i'm not a real man lol)

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    how rule :3 want to be held

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  • what's uhhh, what's the implication here. because that hand position implies holding down and fucking, but the way the legs are positioned absolutely do not

    could do a riding thing if you have a dick and you're being held down by someone with a vagina, i guess, but i feel like that's also a different interpretation of what's happening

    (mostly joking / overthinking)

  • with the guy who posted about being an ex-reddit user, why do so many reddit posts call trans men/afab trans people "theyfabs"?

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  • "i don't have a partner because [only theyfabs] asked me out" is an insane cope, that's a skill issue

  • anyone else an ex reddit user?

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  • yeah i remember those insecure assholes. annoyed the shit out of me

    glad this community isn't like that :) fuck reddit, and welcome

  • should i shave my legs?

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  • does the guy you like recognize you as a guy?

  • All clothing is unirule

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  • this is so real. dresses looked alright on me and then i became much closer to a bear and it's. less good.

  • Epstein Survivor Says She Voted for Trump But Now ‘Would Love to See’ Him ‘Get Impeached Over’ Epstein Files Debacle

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  • Please help me figure out how to actually DO therapy because I'm stupid (sorry, LONG)

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  • i've found that therapy is good for practicing social skills, and explaining your feelings to other people. these are generally valuable skills, but they lack in what you're looking for - trying to get yourself to a less reactive state

    have you read a book called "the body keeps the score"? it talks a lot about PTSD/CPTSD, the causes, and, most relevantly, the treatments. if you want to stick to therapy, i would suggest EMDR, it seems to have better outcomes for people dealing with trauma. for stuff you can do today, i would practice 4-7-8 breathing and yoga. down the line, i would recommend looking into neurofeedback. it helped me a ton. but i think breathing + yoga are sort of the slow, manual path that neurofeedback takes you down, and are worthwhile in their own respect

    good luck in your journey, i hope you find this helpful. one day, may trauma be as easy to treat as any other condition humans can be afflicted with

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  • (real question) is there a non-carb grain? is there a grain that's mostly protein? (a lot of keto stuff has pea protein...) (i'm almost certain there's no FAT based grain 😭)

  • please check out !diyhrt@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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  • yeah it seems a lot trickier to discuss the HRT relevant to us. i don't think it's necessarily invalid to have linked it here, but...

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  • people don't just "wake up". a movement is built, one conversation, one comrade at a time; it doesn't just magically happen in the minds of the people. i don't think you're necessarily badly intentioned, but you aren't even giving any compelling stories from your "firsthand experience over the past two decades". your post amounts to "society is FUBAR'd because trust me bro," and frankly, none of us have any reason to trust you, brand new account will no posts

    you also don't really talk like someone who has twenty years of organizing experience. there are methodologies to this, one can be trained in these ways if one really wants to be

    also, how exactly do you expect to survive the MAGApocalypse without community? who do you expect to turn to in times of crisis if not the people around you? or are you just going to isolate yourself from society and go off the grid? do you think people make it through these sorts of crises alone?

    if you are tired of society being built on a foundation of fear, you can begin your journey to building collective power and hope with this page and this site, it's an excellent resource: https://www.labornotes.org/sites/default/files/22AnOrganizingConversation_0.pdf

    finally, reminder that ayn rand ended her life benefiting from the same systems she had decried: social security and medicare

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    trains rule

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  • feel like you could do some really interesting things with model trains and like... model-train-track-restraints 🤔

  • New thing to ponder just dropped

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  • Oh nooooo

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  • you can get headaches plenty with topical minox lol

    i don't have an answer for your question, tho

  • Fatherule

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  • ok but is the thing about farther / further real

  • come on, give the bros some credit

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  • and they were right. i couldn't handle them so i went on testosterone lmfao

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    saw it

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  • that's the nicest thing someone has ever said about me