I'd be willing to bet your dad and grandpa wouldn't consider me a man either, but they have outdated ideas and would not pull in today's society.
I feel you hard on seeing T as cheating though. As a femboy, I see a lot of femboy influencers taking E as basically a performance enhancer. I think the big difference is that you need that extra boost, because your body isn't naturally making the right amount of hormones for you. That's not cheating, it's correcting a biological flaw. You're not really taking it as a shortcut to your exercise goals, you're taking it to become one of the boys.
Bloodborne 2, easy. I don't even really want most of these, let Dark Souls and Demon's Souls rest as franchises. I'd also prefer if FromSoftware returned to the more "metroidvania" style of open worlds as opposed to Elden Ring's "wide as an ocean, deep as a puddle" approach. It's really just between Sekiro 2 and Bloodborne 2 for me, but I can't actually see how FromSoft would meaningfully iterate on Sekiro's combat system. More of it would be good, sure, but a big part of my intitial enjoyment of Sekiro stemmed from learning the combat system for the first time. I can definitely see how modern FromSoft could really spice up trick weapons though, and probably improve on the magic system.