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𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her]

@ dipshit @lemm.ee

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  • This is it. It's really easy for cis people to talk about trans issues like they are nothing because they don't experience them. I should know. I used to be like that before I knew I was a trans girl, and then I eventually came to realize why it hurt so much when my egg broke and I came to be in that position.

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  • Wow you totally seem like a credible and sensible person to make such an assessment, totally not someone with a history of transphobic arguments, nope, not at all, totally not someone who would get themselves banned making such an argument and deserve it 100%.

    If it wasn't clear I was being sarcastic. You clearly parroted right-wing transphobic talking points which means you believe or agree with them to a certain extent. You are not a safe person for trans people. Saying "I'm not transphobic I support LGBTQ, but..." is the equivalent of saying "I'm not racist, I have black friends". I know your kind very well. I used to be one.

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  • It's sad. I'm really going to miss this place. I migrated to lemmy.blahaj.zone. I hope I'll continue to have great experiences there.

  • i personally love pathetic girls. we really do it best (⁠◡⁠ ⁠ω⁠ ⁠◡⁠)

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  • You and me both sister.

  • boobs

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  • I know. I wish Breast Growth didn't take so long. It's only been one month since I started HRT but it feels like forever 😭

  • How's your week been?

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  • I'm doing pretty good. I found a new therapist and I've been seeing her, though I'm not 100% sure yet if I trust her. She is trans too though so that's a good sign I guess. Also I've been feeling a lot more calm lately, I'm not sure if it's because of HRT or things going well but it's nice.

  • Assigned Cock at birth

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  • I don't think mine is, she certainly doesn't bother me. Two things about being AMAB that I actually kinda like are my mustache and my genitals.

  • Assigned Cock at birth

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  • Aww dang it, it was only after I posted this that I remembered the alternate meaning of ACAB. I thought it was just funny and relatable at the time since I'm a trans woman who feels that part doesn't invalidate my identity.

  • Male rule

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  • Makes sense to me, AMAB these days has little to do with maleness, it just describes if someone was born with a dick and balls, that's how they decide "It's a boy" when the baby is born anyway, even though they might be dead wrong 🏳️‍⚧️

  • Male rule

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  • That's what I did as well, just because god or whatever higher power gave me a penis doesn't make me any less of a woman.

  • Trans Memes @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Assigned Cock at birth

  • 196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Male rule

  • [Vent] Well it's official I'm starting DIY HRT

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  • I think it might have been partly because I said to her once that I wanted to try and reduce or prevent muscle loss on HRT and maybe she took that as me having second thoughts about getting HRT. Also she didn't specifically say that girlmoding or commitment was required for HRT but that she found my lack of it concerning. I shouldn't beat myself up too much for it though. She was trying to gatekeep me, I didn't mess up by telling her that.

    I was thinking that I would take HRT long enough for permanent changes to set in since one thing that I do worry about is muscle loss on HRT. Then I'd stop taking it and the blockers, probably gradually and let my body's natural hormones take over again. I'm not sure how bad muscle loss on HRT is, I've heard some people say it's not that bad but I've heard others say enthusiastically that it'll "melt your muscles away like butter". If it's closer to the second I definitely plan to stop in the future.

    Also yeah, I guess what I'm doing would be considered informed consent, not DIY. Im my defense I've heard many people call it DIY and I'm still very much a noob a this whole trans thing (only came out a few months ago and I learn new things everyday 😅).

  • Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee
    Vent

    Well it's official I'm starting DIY HRT

  • Transfem tomboys rule

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  • That seems shitty (also FYI trap is a nasty word). I'm not doing that at all. I try and be very clear that I'm a girl. A masculine girl who likes sports, cars, and getting dirty but a girl no less.

  • Transfem tomboys rule

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  • It means AMAB. Best way to remember is that trans terminology describes identities we identify with, or direction of transition. So trans women are women, and transfem (transfeminine) means feminine or feminizing.

  • 196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Transfem tomboys rule

  • egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    egg_irl

  • 196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    "politics" rule

  • Advice on DIY HRT?

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  • Fuck you, I'm not waiting longer than I need to. I'm doing DIY if my therapist doesn't write me the letter, I'm not finding another one and wasting more months talking about worthless feelings just so they can maybe write me a letter when I could've started DIY and began the journey already.

  • Advice on DIY HRT?

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  • I've seen people talk shit and try and argue that detransition rates are higher than they really are. They've used that to justify long wait times for HRT and transitioning. I just didn't want people to give me the speech about how the wait is to make me sure so I don't regret it and detransition. I know that won't happen because I desperately want the changes, my flat chest gives me immense dysphoria.

    I have no idea why or if my therapist is gatekeeping me, it could just be that she hasn't written the letter yet, but I for one am not willing to wait more months for her to do so. The sooner I start the better.

  • Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Advice on DIY HRT?

  • Why did you transition? Wrong answers only

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  • I was never able to get a girlfriend, so I decided to become the girlfriend (I still really wish I had a girlfriend ☹️).

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  • Superglue is way worse than wheatpaste, if wheatpaste is hard to remove, superglue is impossible without causing extensive surface damage, especially on plastic surfaces.

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  • Get a superglue bottle with a brush and coat the surface in that before putting the sticker on it. It'll make it a pain to remove and basically impossible without surface damage.

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  • In the bathrooms of any red state or republican-leaning town.

  • egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Egg_irl

  • furry_irl

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  • Thank you I didn't know who made it, I just found it. Added to the post body.

  • egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee
    Transfem

    egg_irl

  • furry_irl @pawb.social
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    furry_irl

  • egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    egg🚊irl

  • egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee
    Transfem

    Egg_irl

  • Trans @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Are you all having a happy new year?

  • Trans @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    I just got my ears pierced today 😊

  • egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Egg_irl

  • Trans @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    What do you think of the picrew pfp I made?

  • Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Made a Picrew for my pfp and thought I'd share

  • Trans @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Reflecting on past mistakes

  • Chat @beehaw.org
    𝕯𝖎𝖕𝖘𝖍𝖎𝖙⚧ [She/Her] @lemm.ee

    Why did Beehaw defederate from Lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works for poor moderation and not lemm.ee and discuss.online?

    lemmyverse.link /beehaw.org/post/17199836