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cowboycrustation [he/him]

@ cowboycrustation @lemmy.blahaj.zone

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King of all crustations. Lord of all cowboys. Brother to all the transes.

  • It does feel lonely on fedi as trans guy

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  • Same here. I rarely talk about it IRL.

  • It does feel lonely on fedi as trans guy

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  • Yep. It's been a problem for a while. I'm adore IT so I fit into the fediverse alright, but the subculture around it is exclusionary in trans spaces.

    The cool thing about the fediverse tho is that you can usually carve out your own space if you post on it/promote it enough.

  • How's your week been?

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  • Been doing pretty well. College has been really good for me and I feel happy in spite of all that's going on in the world. Thriving is resistance.

  • [CW: misogyny] First experience with misogynistic men

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  • Yep. It's just a part of life running into people like that. Doesn't mean it doesn't suck, but as you get more experience with it you'll find your own ways of pushing back. A good comeback is "oh, so you see your mother as a sex object?" or something like that.

  • Looking for more mods

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  • Thanks a bunch. I'll make you mod

  • Transmasc @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Looking for more mods

  • Sounds about right.

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  • I don't use outlook anymore but I do use Thunderbird and the UI is janky and outdated, plus it has to download and catch up on messages every time you open it.

  • I just got my ears pierced today 😊

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  • Awesome, congrats

  • What social short video platform should I use?

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  • Tumblr has a lot of LGBTQ people, but is a text based platform as opposed to a short form video platform.

  • Dating struggles - I'm only attracted to straight guys

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  • I'm straight so not exactly the same situation but I recommend that you don't let it take too much of your mental energy and do things that make you happy in the meantime. If you keep looking the odds are that you'll find someone eventually, just takes time.

    Can relate to the idea that it would be easier not being trans. It makes dating a lot more complicated to navigate and I've struggled with the idea that being trans makes me less desirable and attractive. Doesn't help that I'm really bad at picking up if someone's flirting with me and feel guilty if I do think that and what if she's just being friendly. Ultimately I realized that the right person isn't gonna care that I'm trans and will love me for my full self.

  • Transmasc @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Introduce yourself

  • Transmasc @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Big resource

    github.com /cvyl/awesome-transgender

  • What are the most unexpected side effects of T that you've gotten?

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  • From my understanding that's pretty rare. Also know plenty of cis women who've gotten that from age and/or childbirth.

  • Trans @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    "Gender isn't assigned, it's biological!"

  • Transmasc @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Transitioning healed my relationship with food

  • Transmasc @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    What are the most unexpected side effects of T that you've gotten?

  • Trans @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Community, hope for a better future

    maia.crimew.gay /posts/anarchism-in-the-now/

  • 100% optimal performance

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  • I usually just eat the hard drive

  • Trans @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Who all do i need to notify after changing my legal name and sex?

  • Transmasc @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Fuck TSA

  • Transmasc @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Being a man ain't so bad

  • Post-Election Message

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  • I have no fucking idea the path that my life is gonna take. Things were looking up and all I wanted was to finish the college of my dreams and enjoy my life. I have absolutely no idea what to do now. I do have citizenship in another country that I can flee to but that means leaving my friends, family, and education behind. What's gonna happen :/

  • Trans @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Question

  • Transmasc @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Which is cheaper: T gel packets or pumps?

  • Transmasc @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Slowly hatching into my new self

  • Transmasc @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Insecurities

  • Transmasc @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    How do i control acne

  • Transmasc @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Ten months on T, not a single facial hair

  • Trans @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Building Friendships: Transgender Guide to Thriving in a New City

    www.transvitae.com /making-friends-in-a-new-city-a-trans-persons-guide-to-expanding-social-circles/
  • Trans @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    How's your transition been going

  • Transmasc @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    New freckles on T

  • Are passing photos allowed?

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  • For future reference: you can post most things as long as it relates to the topic (ftm and transmasc) and isn't harmful to you or others

  • Trans @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    cowboycrustation [he/him] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Pictures post transition

  • Time for shave posting!

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  • The Thousand Yard Stare

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  • Too relatable...

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    Rule 3

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  • Thanks, wouldn't be able to do everything without my lovely team of co-mods.

  • Clitorial deniers

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  • Pee is stored in the clit