The idea that you're not interested in being called out is not unusual.
You have a bone to pick with Proton. It is evident as you've singled them out without mentioning this is industry standard. You have a problem with the VPN industry that you are solely blaming Proton for in your post title.
You are a weird little agitator and deserve many more ad hominems. Get wrecked.
Be quiet, nerd. Nobody needs your anecdote about how stressed you were not knowing the specific slur.