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  • Parents, do y'all love your children more/less depending on if they reciprocate it? Or do you love your children the same regardless, even if they hate you?

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  • Holy shit. I feel like I live in a different world than everyone else who's responded to this question.

    Yes, of course I love the kids who reciprocate my love more. It's one of the most endearing things about kids is when they say that I love you and provide that emotional feedback. That doesn't mean if they didn't that I wouldn't love them, but it does mean that if one or two of my three kids got distant that I would probably love them less. That doesn't mean zero, it just means less. I left all my kids in different ways based upon each of their personalities. It always fluctuates and I see it pull on my heartstrings whatever they do things that are loving and kind and giving...

    I guess what I'm really saying is that I'm not 0 to 100% love, I'm talking about going from 70 to 100% or something like that. I will always love my kids, but I love them even more when they give it back.

  • Parents, have you ever said something hurtful to your child that you "didn't mean to say"?

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  • Honestly, no, I can't really say I have. I'm also not someone who loses my temper very easily and when I do I never start screaming or shouting.

  • Heathcliff / Groo

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  • I agree. I collected those comics when I was a kid. (I actually still have a bunch which my kids have all read through at this point.)

  • Heathcliff / Groo

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  • I feel like the amount of people who know who Groo is are few and far between.

  • Why many men struggle to maintain deep male friendships later in life

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  • In my opinion, guy friendships need to be doing something together. We don't call each other up out of a blue and talk to each other about deep things. We don't share our emotions other than on a high level or in extreme cases.

    The good friends I have. I always do stuff with. I have one really good friend who I always hike with every weekend. I have another good friend group that plays video games together most nights. If you remove those people from my life, I don't have a single male friend left that I talk with more than once a year.

    I always figured that's why watching and playing sports was so important to guys. It's the glue that holds male friendships together. (Or in my case, playing online video games)

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    This is going to be the origin story of a Punisher character if they keep this up.

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  • At the moment it's about racism. The goal is to make America less friendly to immigrants. They haven't started to really hit "nuisances" yet. That'll come later once this is all normalized.

  • Former Vice President Dick Cheney, who pushed for Iraq invasion, dies at 84

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  • I honestly don't get how he lived this long. It was so obvious that he and Bush lied us into the war in Iraq. If my son or daughter was killed over there or massively injured, I would have made it my mission to kill the guys who lied and profited off of it. I'm not advocating for that, it just seems a logical consequence of those actions.

    Somewhere between half a million people and 5 million people died as a consequence of that lie and the invasion. Cheney is a piece of shit and there is a lake of blood that this guy is responsible for. I only wish there was a hell for him to go to.

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  • I feel like what some of you guys miss. Here is understanding what makes life fun. Certain superpowers would make life criminally boring and the goal would be to get power so that you can do what you want with your life, try different things out, be safe and secure, but still have a life that has meaning.

    If you are too overpowered or have things that allow you to see way past what being human is, then you'd be stuck all alone looking at humans that look like ants to you and you'd be bored out of your skull. I kind of feel like that's what Dr. Manhattan was except I think the reality would be worse.

    You have to look at what phase two of this super power would be. I kind of like the save point one or something that gives you control to do what you want, but you still have to deal with the consequences. That way you gain a lot of control over your life, but you still have to live it with consequences. It would kind of be like winning the lottery. It would be turning the video game on easy mode, but not making it so easy you don't want to play.

  • Whats the worst game mechanic?

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  • You know what, I think it was OG Oblivion and I just mixed it up with Skyrim.... It got me to quit playing the game after a while.

  • Whats the worst game mechanic?

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  • One of the worst game mechanics ever found in a game was where the enemy got harder as you gained levels. The same enemy. It basically defeated the value of having more levels. I think it was Oblivion Skyrim where I found this, particularly annoying.

  • There was no need to ever improve upon THIS

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  • Fuck that, give me a thermostat any day of the week.

  • Judge blocks LAPD request to lift restrictions on use of force against the press

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  • Can someone steal man the other side? This isn't making sense to me.

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  • Meh. My wife and I had kids based upon our own thoughts of how we wanted our life to go, not based upon some reproduction drive. The sex drive is a totally different thing, but there was no urge and pull to have kids for us.

    We've had three kids and it's been an incredible experience with very few downsides and massive upsides. I was not a "kid person" before having kids, but IMO it's one of the peek good experiences in life.

  • Uncircumcised penis owners, did you ever wish you were circumcised?

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  • Don't do it man. I live in the US (born and raised) and I'm uncircumcised and I've never in my life been challenged about it. There is zero reason to do it to fit in culturally. And fuck any culture that encourages you to mutilate the genitals of your child.

    Don't do it.

    Even if it's for your religion, let your kids decide whether they want to be circumcised at the age of 18.

  • People regret buying Amazon smart displays after being bombarded with ads

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  • I have an echo show in my kitchen. It displays ads, but they're super easy to ignore. They're just basically text pictures on the screen when it's not being used and on topics that I selected.

    I'm pretty massively against ads, but the echo show's don't bother me in the least. If Alexa Plus starts giving me verbal ads or injecting them into things then it will quickly find its way into the trash can.

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  • Anytime the girl looks like she's not actually enjoying the sex. Fake or dubbed sound. Choking or slapping (see first item).

    I also usually find any talking (sexy talk) to be awful. I don't have a problem with it in concept, but in porn execution, it's almost always super bad. Camera man talking is universally bad.

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  • My parents-in-law came from an African country where they had opinions similar to South Africa and apartheid. Basically blacks were okay but it was shameful if someone black married one of their children. They immigrated to San Francisco and lo and behold, one of their daughters started dating a black guy.

    When it can't to light she was ostracized from the family by her mom. Now, she said she did this, but it was really only the parents who tried to break contact. All her siblings were perfectly fine with this and didn't break contact and in fact my wife and i supported them when they moved to the city we lived in to get resettled.

    To cut to the chase, after about 5 years the mother and daughter worked things out and now every is accepting of their relationship. I took the mom a few years to get over it.

    I guess my point is, I would almost just ignore this, if you're a good couple they'll get over it eventually and it'll be fine. And if not, fuck 'em.

  • Disney reportedly lost 1.7 million paid subscribers in the week after suspending Kimmel

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  • It's good to reward good behavior too. If none of them came back then they might as well have just shrugged their shoulders and said "oh well" and left him off air.

  • Expecting heavy industry greenwashing of this

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  • I lived in rural Japan for 3 years... Seemed to work just fine there.