andrewta

No.

If you count having a job as even working for yourself and doing the work. Then if you want the money then you are doing a job. Only thing that changes is who you work for

andrewta @lemmy.world 2d ago

40 hours in a week. After that it will start to affect your life

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andrewta @lemmy.world 2d ago

The popular belief is that prenuptial agreements are bad.

Go talk to a marriage counselor they will tell you the exact opposite. A prenuptial agreement make sure that everybody is on the same page. It makes sure there’s no misunderstandings as to how a marriage should run. It also make sure there’s no misunderstandings of how a divorce should be handled.

Hollywood would make you believe that a prenuptial agreement is wrote by one person it’s actually wrote by two. And technically it’s actually wrote by four. The two people getting married and each one of them have an attorney. So that’s four people that are getting this thing wrote.

It protects you from unknown events in the future. For example, let’s say you and I get married no prenup. Few years later I have a traumatic brain injury and I get a personality change out of it. This can actually happen. Well now I’m a sociopathic asshole. Now it’s all me me me. If there’s been a prenuptial agreement, you are protected. I would’ve made sure that future you was protected from future me.

It also clears up how things should be handled such as if one of us owns a house. Who gets the house is your name going to be on it? What happens to it during a divorce? Everybody has their own opinions on all this shit happen, but very few people will write it down.

We’ll talk about how we think these things should be happening, but we won’t write them down and then years later we claim, but I didn’t really say that or I didn’t mean that.

Here’s the problem. We all have a prenuptial agreement at the moment you get married. The state has wrote it. I can pretty much guarantee you you won’t like the one the state wrote. Write one yourself.

It’s the same way with a will. The state has already wrote you a will I can pretty much guarantee you’re next of kin is going to hate that will.

If you gotta buy a used car, you want everything in writing not just the other person‘s word at it. If you buy a new house you want it wrote down not just the sales person‘s word of what is or is not covered. So why would you have a verbal conversation with your significant other of how a marriage should be run and how divorce should be handled, but not write it down?

In my opinion, you get married you get a prenup. Make sure everybody’s on the same page. If they refuse to write it down, Handle it the exact same way you would handle buying that house. They don’t want to write it down you run.

How many people do you know of who got married then got divorced, and the judge absolutely screwed them over.? With a prenup, you are telling the judge how to handle the divorce. The judge isn’t telling you what happens. Again a prenuptial agreement is wrote by two people. Both people have equal say as to what is in it, both people are equally represented by attorneys. Therefore, nobody can claim one person had control over the other.

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andrewta @lemmy.world 3d ago

Keep fantasizing

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andrewta @lemmy.world 5d ago

agree with everything you said.

the most annoying part is when people (consumers) respond with "you don't have to buy this product, just buy something else" ...

what the hell am i supposed to buy. it's all being done this way
it's like those consumers are saying the same as the company which is "just fucking die already"

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andrewta @lemmy.world 5d ago

Not sure what “fptp” means

But a legislator can vote how ever they want. There is no law that stops them but as another mentioned, if they don’t vote the party line then they can expect the party funds their opponent.

andrewta @lemmy.world 6d ago

Depending upon your age, that’s not too surprising. When I was about 25 I kind of felt the same way. I’m now 50+ My mom is little over 20 years older than I am. I’d say she understands me pretty well and I understand her.

The older you get the more wisdom you get and you start to understand the other side just a little more

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andrewta @lemmy.world 1w ago

The people who down voted you don’t really understand how world history has played out. You are absolutely correct if the US fails you’ll just have somebody else.

andrewta @lemmy.world 2w ago

No idea of why you got down voted. You are simply saying you couldn’t do it but wouldn’t judge others for doing it.

Down vote here seems strange

andrewta @lemmy.world 2w ago

Honestly, not sure if this is a fake image or not

andrewta @lemmy.world 2w ago

We swap back-and-forth between real and fake. Some of it depends upon time to be able to go out and get one, because we go and chop ours down When we get a real one. It also depends on the weather if it gets really cold sometimes will just put up the fake one. But yeah, we do prefer a real one.