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    3 days ago

    It’s very easy to justify your opinions when, if someone tries to take a counter position, “Oh, I didn’t mean that situation so I’m still right”.

    The problem with this isn’t that they’re saying that problems exist… it’s that it’s so simplistic and overly-broad that it attacks broadly without ever aiming at anyone. You can just say “I wasn’t aiming for you” without ever specifying specifically what you did mean that anyone trying to bring context or have an actual discussion about the problem (and thus find a way to make things better) can be seen as just being argumentative and part of that “toxic masculinity”.

    Talking about it and trying to find root causes, and maybe a way to fix the issue, is not perpetuating this problem. Whining about it then shutting anyone down who does the former is perpetuating it. All it does is breed divisiveness and tribalism.