

That’s not what happened in the show though.
What actually happened: She read her grandmother’s journal that had surprisingly spicy bits. Went to bed and was raped by a non-corporeal being and deceived into thinking it was a dream. She then tried to rationalize this disturbing dream to her close friend and therapist.
Trying to twist this into something else is just creepy
I guess women aren’t allowed to be sexual? No excusing the other sexist Rick Berman nonsense. But if you really think women reading about, finding pleasure in, and talking about erotic literature with their friends and co-workers isn’t a fairly common, mundane, and totally normal thing to do without any shame, then I really don’t know what to say. This feels like a really creepy thing to take issue with.
You can save the entire ship, cure random space diseases, raise a child alone on a starship faced with existential threats on the daily, but you get raped by one ghost and now men only see you as the ghost-fucker.