I don't have anything to add to the answers to your question but I would advise to avoid Shein even second hand. Their clothes have been tested to contain dangerous levels of toxins several times. Other fast fashion brands are not more ethical in production but at least they keep the chemicals within the regulations.
There's Ghost Commander, if you want a foss alternative to Total Commander. I remember the switch as Ghost Commander feeling basically the same but slightly better.
Für Leute, die gerne englischsprachige Medien konsumieren: Ich hatte mal recherchiert, ob man sich bei Bibliotheken in den USA auch als Nicht-Einwohner registrieren kann. Tatsächlich geht das bei manchen.
Zum Beispiel: https://queenslibrary.org/get-a-card/eUserKostet 50$ im Jahr, aber für viel Leser lohnt sich das vermutlich trotzdem. Ich hab es selbst bisher allerdings noch nicht probiert. Ist also kein Erfahrungsbericht, sondern nur mein Rechercheergebnis.
As a teenager I never wore dresses, skirts or nail polish because I didn't want to be seen as a girly girl. I was into science and books and that didn't seem to fit the vibes.
I'm glad that I figured out in my twenties that being in a male-dominated tech field doesn't require you to dress masculine or wear nerd shirts. If you're into that, that's great, but it's also okay to wear dresses or put on make up if you work as an engineer or a software developer.
I remember a professor at uni telling us that at some time in the future each of us will either be the ancestor of every living human or of none.
Equally, if you go back far enough, you will find a common ancestor with every other living person, thus making us all related.
While that seems unintuitive – what about the members of some remote tribe without contact to civilisation? –, keep in mind that even the most remote tribe has to have contact with some neighbouring people . Otherwise they wouldn't have enough genetic diversity. And those neighbours are in contact with their neighbours and so on.
Edit: Changed "intuitive" to "unintuitive"... Oops
I think what they meant to say is that only a small fraction flees to Europe.
Take Syria for example. Of all the people displaced by the war, about half left the country (according to my quick Google research). By far the biggest portion of the ones leaving went to Turkey, a neighbouring country (about 4 million). Germany, the European country that took in by far the most Syrian refugees, took in something between half a million and a million, about the same amount as Lebanon, which is about 16 times smaller populationwise. Going down the list, before you get to other European countries, there are several other countries in Syria's neighbourhood — Jordan, Egypt, Iraq.
So I think it's fair to say that the majority of people try to stay in the vicinity of their country and only flee farther if they have to.
I know this is a lot more difficult than it sounds because attention is a finite resource, but giving each of them the attention they need. This does not have to be the same amount for each child but none of them should feel like the other one is getting attention when they need it.
Most adults I know that don't get along with their siblings felt like they were neglected compared to the other sibling(s). Whether that's objectively true is hard to tell but it's worth checking in with your children from time to time.
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