This all rests on the idea that a masculine gender is basically mandatory (and I would guess, linked to being male).
Masculinity is a problem, it's saying that if you are a "man" (once again, generally defined by sex) then you have to follow a set of rules. Currently, these are toxic, thus toxic masculinity. But if they were healthy, then why would they have to be gendered? If, let's say, you think talking about your feelings openly is a part of healthy masculinity, does it mean it's only allowed for men? If not, why is it part of masculinity?
Which is as logical as cringing when someone would mention blockchain features some time ago.
AI is not currently in a state (technical or social) that makes it ever useful.