Substinence farming fucking sucks, you’re going to be on the field all day long in the summer in order to have enough food to get you through the winter. Hobbyist gardening gives you best of both worlds - you have a nice patch of land to play in, and at the end you get a handful of produce to show off to friends and family.
Safe ❌
Sane ❌
Consensual - We do not see the reply, but I guess no.
Blasting poor BDSM practices is not kinkshaming.