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RisenPhoenix

@ RisenPhoenix @lemmy.world

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  • How do i move on from thoughts that i never had and never going to have relationships?

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  • heart issues mean i cant go to gym and start lifting and stuff, so cant get in shape, im trying to do calistenics but they are not that good for getting big muscles

  • How do i move on from thoughts that i never had and never going to have relationships?

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  • well, maybe you are right... maybe someday i will have a courage to use service of sex workers

  • How do i move on from thoughts that i never had and never going to have relationships?

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  • no, i mean what if i get addicted to sex? i will just spend more money on it, than doing something towards becoming better

  • How do i move on from thoughts that i never had and never going to have relationships?

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  • that i would want more and more, not sure that its will do good to my mental health

  • How do i move on from thoughts that i never had and never going to have relationships?

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  • about nice haircut, im balding ;D i tried buz cut and fully bald but my head shape isnt that great so it looks odd, i had some haircuts that i liked but now my front hair started to recede so they dont look good anymore

  • How do i move on from thoughts that i never had and never going to have relationships?

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  • im not sure that i want to get into this loop, as an weak-willed person. After first time i would want a second one and etc, not sure that this good in a long run

  • How do i move on from thoughts that i never had and never going to have relationships?

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  • im not that skilled for an art group, maybe sometime in the future, but right now my drawings are childish and its kinda cringe in a way

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  • Yeah, but how to find that kind of women? Most of women i tried to approach are into stuff that i dont like. Finding internet groups that like same stuff? I dunno, isnt that creepy when random dude trying to get acquainted through messaging? A lot of female artist i find are already taken or married. Going to some conventions? Im not sure im ready for that kind of stuff as an introvert

  • How do i move on from thoughts that i never had and never going to have relationships?

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  • thank you for kind words, you are right i dont want to burden anyone with my problems, but i just cant get this thoughts from my head... All of my friends already have some experience, and im not, Dont want it to be just experience tho, but most of them saying that those feelings are nothing that i can compare to, so im really curious and jealous of not having that level of intimacy. Im not from US, but my place is not good either, people are gloomy and mostly not friendly

  • How do i move on from thoughts that i never had and never going to have relationships?

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  • Well, i have a degree in computer science, i like a lot stuff about pc, coding. I also like art in general, i even draw sometimes and want to get better at it.

  • How do i move on from thoughts that i never had and never going to have relationships?

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  • for that vibe - yes, but again im not attractive at all, someone notices me and prly will think about friendship at max. I am not saying friendships are bad - no, they are good if they are genuine, but it's just might be not what i'm looking for, or looked....

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  • its seems nice, but i think this topics will run out pretty fast if you dont share some interests in common, at least it was for me when a person was outgoing, party type, going to concerts and stuff, and im more like a house cat. Yeah i talked with them about it for a bit but i didnt know what to ask about it. At some point i even thought to ask chatgpt what shouldve i asked :D but in my head thats not a very lively conversation

  • How do i move on from thoughts that i never had and never going to have relationships?

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  • you are probably right, but most of the girls i talked with didnt have anything that we could share, so converstations end up pretty quickly, with same sex i found it much easier

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  • well, im actually dont know. I never had a problem talking with males, most of them had some kind of interest we shared, and it was pretty easy to go with converstation, with girls, not so much, most of girls i talked with didnt have same interests or anything i could talk about. In my eyes its easier with boys, but its just me

  • How do i move on from thoughts that i never had and never going to have relationships?

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  • i tried to chat with kinda ugly girl few years ago, but shes ghosted after few days, im probably not much of a talker, dont know how to talk with opposite sex, and we didnt have much in common

  • How do i move on from thoughts that i never had and never going to have relationships?

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  • im sure nobody wants to wake up and see and ugly face beside them, they gonna feel awful seeing me, i dont want to ruin someone happines

  • How do i move on from thoughts that i never had and never going to have relationships?

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  • im trying to, but whole world just keep noticing how lonely i am, when i take a walk i see happy couples on the street, when i driving a car i keep hearing music about love and ect. And all these reminders messes with my thoughts.

  • Mental Health @lemmy.world
    RisenPhoenix @lemmy.world

    How do i move on from thoughts that i never had and never going to have relationships?

  • I get scared of a girl who approached me

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  • I dont have that problem with relatives coz i grow up with them and they are very familiar people to me, but i dont feel like talking to them about all this, i graduated from school a very long time ago, and my institute was mostly men, i remember our group of 30 people only had 2 girl, and now i work in freelance so no colleagues

  • I get scared of a girl who approached me

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  • Yeah you probably right, but i dont really know how to make that switch, being out of touch with opposite sex didnt do me any good and now it became hard as hell

  • No Stupid Questions @lemmy.world
    RisenPhoenix @lemmy.world

    I get scared of a girl who approached me