It's too general of a question, with no single answer.
I'm sure some have had great experiences, others have had REALLY bad ones. Depends more on the people, what they do and how they do it than whether or not she is married.
Twice in the past few years someone has gotten into my car and emptied my loose change container. Thankfully they didn't mess with anything else. I just told myself they must need it more than I do.
Trust me, in 6 months your tune will change when they make you submit that form again to prove that you're still broke. It's such a tedious process that often gets fucked up by the office after you turn it in, you'll feel like you deserve even MORE than they'll give you.
Yup. I tried the I'm sorry thing. The judge said he was sorry I wasn't rich.