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  • Queen___Bee@lemmy.worldOPtoGardening@lemmy.worldPlant Suggestions
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    4 months ago

    Thanks for the feedback. The last time I repotted it was sometime early last year, and I don’t know how frequent I should be doing that. Once the plant becomes twice as tall as the pot or taller?

    I didn’t think about pruning being helpful for strengthening roots, so I’ll give that a shot.

    So far the plant gets plenty of light. The window is north facing so it’s more indirect light, but plenty of light gets through as far as I can tell. I tried moving it, but maybe I’m doing that wrong. Do I keep it in the moved position for several days, a couple weeks, or until I notice the branches aren’t leaning as much and then move it again?



  • Regardless of the source’s background, the information she mentioned actually reflects current knowledge of how infants and older children develop. In order to develop emotion regulation skills, healthy attachment, and social skills, we do naturally look away from our caregiver and others doting on us as a way to self-regulate intense feelings.

    In fact, many children can develop attachment and emotion regulation issues if caregivers aren’t responsive and share compassion or empathize with a child’s behavior (e.g. a baby becoming upset and crying if- when looking away- the caregiver instead tries to get its attention repeatedly and not giving the child a break.) That’s why it’s important to have some level of emotional intelligence to develop healthy attachments with kids and them with us.

    For more information, you can look up attachment theory and theories on human development (Erikson, Piaget, etc.). This is also mentioned here.

    Source: Therapist



  • I don’t know about OP, but when I put rope on my cat-tree’s soft-fabric column I just wound it around the column (cylinder, don’t know if it would work as well on a squarer support) as tightly as I could and safety pinned the bottom end to the 2nd to last row. The tight coil encourages friction and prevents slippage when he scratches it. The rope hasn’t moved, aside from when I rotate it for a fresher side, since I placed it over 2 years ago.