I have mixed feelings about having gone to a grammar school - how at odds private education is with my values, but also how many of those values were formed from seeing the world from an angle I wouldn't have been able to at a public school - but for once I'm straight up thankful I went and learnt how to be charming as a mode of attack. Deferring to their knowledge while preempting their instructions, just things like saying "after you" a second before they could instruct me to follow them, undermined their authority and put them a little off balance without them being able to identify it as anything other than gracious politeness.Really importantly though, I wouldn't recommend any of what I did as a general approach to being arrested. I have a bunch of privileges I knew would influence their attitude towards me, like being white, identifiably male, and well spoken, and other privileges I knew I could lean on to help out, like having a strong support network in my friends and family, so combined with the frivolity of the crime I was doing all of it from a fairly safe position. If I was a minority or looked poorer there's a good chance it would have been seen as being cheeky and resulted in at least a caution, and if my parents didn't already know a bunch of solicitors I wouldnt have been able to project confidence in the way I did.
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It was an extremely oblique 1984 reference -I don't really have opinions on specific car models, I just find the names funny.