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Passerby6497

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    I always feel that this handwriting looks strange (I wrote it myself)

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  • You might want to go find a "clam" corner to think about your lack of a question

  • SysAdmins and Engineers of Lemmy, what's your take on Secure Service Edge?

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  • Don't use sonic walls, and also I don't have any configured, so I can't help you with any specifics other than other vendors.

    Just guessing, they might be doing some kind of network level exploit detection along with the VPN. My network team has that setup on our firewall (multi-zone, including VPN), and I've been called in on more than a few security calls triggered by network EDR. If they have people you can use in that kind of a scenario, it would probably be worth it (my CISO is always trying to get customers to buy into the service BEFORE we have to get on a call rather than after).

  • Teaching seems like a frustrating job

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  • 1 - You say it's inappropriate right after saying 'this is shit kids do', you're still softballing your disapproval by acting like this is normal

    2 - I don't read that as talking to the child, but venting about them to other adults, as I seen tons of times (with choice words, but still)

    3 - probably more for the peanut gallery who can't comprehend non-violent punishments

    Then why are you defending it so hard?

    I'm not, I'm defending myself against people making up details in the situation and acting like I'm doing it to my kid.

    But this conversation has more than ran it's course, so I'm done with this thread. Good day.

  • Teaching seems like a frustrating job

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  • I'm always amazed at how little reading comprehension people have, or how they end up responding to things in their own head.

    1 - your example of your little brother acting like an asshole doesn't mean it's "shit that kids do". This is "boys will be boys" shit, and that's not acceptable. This is like saying your little brother throws rocks at moving cars or at animals and it's just "shit kids do". Misbehaving kids do it, and need to be taught better, but it is not normal kid behavior.

    2 - no one is saying they're talking to the kid like that

    3 - part of teaching kids to be better people is showing them there are natural consequences for their actions, which guess what? That's a form of punishment, and it isn't violence.

    If you call your five year old garbage for acting out, you're a shitty parent.

    I ask my kid what's wrong and work with them to find a solution, and implement natural/logical (and because crayons are needed, non violent) consequences for their misbehavior. I may use choice descriptors for their behavior when they are not in the house, but I would never speak to my kid that way.

    It baffles me how many people in this thread don't have a concept of natural/logical consequences as punishment, and it really fucking shows in the responses. But I guess when you're raised with violence and can't be bothered to look into alternatives, it's easy to assume and drag people on the Internet

  • Teaching seems like a frustrating job

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  • Sure, why not. Because all punishment is the job of the state, and no parent has the capability to punish their kid without violence, clearly.

    /S for those who can't realize punishment and violence are not synonymous

  • Teaching seems like a frustrating job

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  • Or maybe you talk to the kid and take away a privilege they have temporarily that is (at least close to) a natural consequence of behavior? But then again, I'm just a parent of a relatively well adjusted kid who isn't violent and talks to me about their problems, so what the fuck do I know?

    Man, the amount of people who default "punishment" to "violence against kids" is fucking stupid.

  • Teaching seems like a frustrating job

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  • People who think you should teach kids not to hit people. And people who have enough braincells to rub together to understand that punishment and violence against children aren't the same thing.

  • Teaching seems like a frustrating job

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  • Show us on the thread where anyone advocated for hitting the kid? All I see is people assuming parents are going to hit the kid.

  • If only

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  • Thank you! I couldn't read the shirt and was wondering what the middle one was.

  • If only

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  • And the current us gov is bringing it back! Fukkin hooray /s

  • Opera: A Legacy Browser Lost | Why the modern hollow shell of Opera has made it impossible for me to recommend a former favorite.

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  • To which I also have to note, how few browsers aren't chromium... IE Brave, Vivaldi etc...

    I must be misunderstanding this line, as both of those are chromium browsers. Not sure if you meant to call out safari and Firefox as 'how few aren't chromium, or that so many browsers are chromium based like those two.

  • Teaching seems like a frustrating job

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  • What is more important to you, working hard for a better position or work/life balance?

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  • Scott Adams was a massive dipshit, and using his cartoon as anything more than laughing at the addled interpretations of corporate life is mental to me.

    As for management being easier than work, that's only true if you're a psycho or don't actually have a real job to do. Every one of my friends that have been in management hated it, since it was more work and he shit on top of their actual job. And again, fuuuuuck that

  • Teaching seems like a frustrating job

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  • Punishing is much more than violence against children, and hitting them is one of the worst ways to punish for many reasons.

  • AI boom could falter without wider adoption, Microsoft chief Satya Nadella warns

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  • "We're not seeing the numbers we want, so we're putting copilot in everything to expand our active user base. Hell, rename everything copilot!"

  • What is more important to you, working hard for a better position or work/life balance?

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  • Work/life balance

    I actively avoid getting promoted because management is the next step and fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck that shit. I hate managing my own workload, I'm not dealing with HR shit and keeping track of other people (while still also doing my job....)

  • Teaching seems like a frustrating job

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  • Regardless of the labelling, punching someone in the face is absolutely not "acting like a child", it's acting like a garbage person. That shit should not be tolerated or excused away to complain about labelling.

    And honestly, excusing away a kid battering their teacher as "acting like a child" is pretty goddamned unacceptable too.

  • Teaching seems like a frustrating job

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  • Nah, even as a child that's unacceptable. My kid is only 5 and I don't let them hit people, and punish them when they do. The response from the parent shows the apple fell straight down

    Edit: if you think this is advocating violence against children, go touch grass or read a single book on parenting ffs. Natural/logical consequences make good punishments for misbehavior, and have gone a long way to helping my kid not act out (and are nonviolent, since that has to be spelled out)

  • What's something that you discovered about yourself only after going to therapy?

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  • Start by discussing specific events that bug you or where you did something you're not happy with yourself about. I suffer from the same issue, and this was how my therapist started teasing out some of the issues I have.

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    What the rule have they done to captchas

  • 196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Dutch is not a serious rule

  • 196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    AI is so rule

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
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    A national tragedy

  • Selfhosted @lemmy.world
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    Is it possible to run a docker host that has no harddrive?

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
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    I do!

  • 196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Two weeks to rule

  • Political Memes @lemmy.world
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    What happens when you hire shit employees?

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
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    You never have to worry about being to early if you never take them down

  • Lemmy Shitpost @lemmy.world
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    They hit the spires!