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  • You're right in that (in)effective would work here, but I did intend to also apply judgment. It often is not the most effective technique, but I also believe it is often unnecessarily hurtful and used as petty vengeance. I see it as an immature reaction from people who don't care about the receiver, or haven't developed other ways to communicate.

    Take your shitty boss example : You're angry at them, and you want to express it. Anger is used to signal your desire to change a situation. If you're leaving, the only thing left to change is their behavior to future employees. If you use passive aggressive methods, you're either hurting them back for simple vengeance, in which case you just don't care about them as a human being because this hurting serves no purpose, or you're trying to change their future behavior. In that case, you will probably just paint yourself as an asshole, which will invalidate your position in their mind. It might sometimes work, but I would not consider it effective compared to being direct for example.

  • Exponential pricing

  • It's all kind of behaviour that aims to harm, hurt, or anger someone without being upfront about the intent.

    If I hit you or insult you, that's not passive. If I say "some of us actually do the dishes around here" within earshot of someone that I believe doesn't do them often enough, that's passive aggressive.

  • Boomer is no longer only referring to a generation, it's also about the stereotypical mindset that now applies to younger people as well

  • Would you really want to take one away from someone who would make those beauties for you every day ?

  • Void

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  • Shaw !

  • Bawk?

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  • It's because it's the only thing that doesn't hit home, the rest is a given

  • Also known as the Bristool scale in the field

  • I don't know about VR, but please note it is not really replayable. A second playthrough is possible, but will amount to a trip down memory lane at best.

  • I read Outer Wilds dialogues and texts for a dyslexic friend ::)

    It was fun !

  • you deserve it

  • spiderule

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  • What about the jar jar though

  • Also they can become permanent if not reversed within a few years

  • Lil silly

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  • scrolling through a few comments, looks like the crane, the death, and the laughing were all part of acting

  • hook is good too

  • 196 @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Meaning of rule

  • No, this is a card

  • While I ultimately agree with you, I wouldn't deny that lack of money is a good recipe for a bad life either