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  • You deserve to have a loving boyfriend as long as you treat him well. The important thing is that you are there for him emotionally.

    Just because you have a chronic illness and are weird doesn’t mean that you cannot love someone else and not treat him well. Every person has their own limitations on what they can do and it isn’t better or worse if yours are different.

    It could be a good idea to look for a boyfriend with similar struggles because that means that he will understand your struggles very easily and you wouldn’t feel like you hold him back because he wouldn’t want to do something that you can’t do anyway.

    There are some exceptions to this, it may not always be a good idea for two depressed people to be together if they pull each other deeper into depression for example.

    I am not a normal person either and I have looked for love for a long time and didn’t find it until I met my girlfriend. We both have similar struggles so we can understand each other very well and we are both so happy that we have found each other.







  • Noobnarski@lemmy.worldtoMemes@sopuli.xyzI'll just take the bus
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    1 month ago

    It depends on the car, my first car used gasoline, so the idle torque was low and you really needed to push the gas at the same time, otherwise it would stall, maybe not if you are releasing the clutch extremely slow, but that is not practical.

    My current diesel car has so much torque even at idle that you really don’t need to press the gas pedal while releasing the clutch.




  • Weak roots are also used with grafted trees for another reason, the tree will carry fruits earlier and more numerous at the start.

    A tree with normal or strong roots might carry a lot of fruits after 10 years when it got pretty big, but before it is just a few.

    But strong roots also go deeper, so less/no watering is needed, which is why I prefer strong roots, I don’t have to make money with the trees in my garden after all.




  • Yes, I know how entitled some people in the US can be. Don’t get me wrong, we also have some of those here but the entitled people in the US are on a different league. I visited the US once and we experienced the first entitled person before even getting through security.

    I guess here in Germany we don’t have quite the same mentality that the business needs to help pack your stuff, we also don’t have grocery baggers (or door greeters).


  • In the US you help people load stuff? I don’t think I have ever seen employees help someone load stuff here in Germany, apart from when someone bought a whole garden house or other stuff that isn’t on the shelves in the first place, but in the warehouse in the back, so they had to bring it out anyway.

    I think some employees probably help if they feel like it, but only when you are nice. If you asked them to load a bag of mulch they would probably just say “good luck with loading it yourselves” 😂