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  • This is a good idea in general, however this doesn’t help when it comes to getting the first interest, because how can you tell if someone is really genuine about caring from a few words on a profile?

    But yeah, my girlfriend wanted to start dating me not because I am the most attractive person, but because I am always nice to her and to people in general. To me it seems crazy to not be, but I guess not everyone is like that.









  • Noobnarski@lemmy.worldtoOff My Chest@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    3 months ago

    You deserve to have a loving boyfriend as long as you treat him well. The important thing is that you are there for him emotionally.

    Just because you have a chronic illness and are weird doesn’t mean that you cannot love someone else and not treat him well. Every person has their own limitations on what they can do and it isn’t better or worse if yours are different.

    It could be a good idea to look for a boyfriend with similar struggles because that means that he will understand your struggles very easily and you wouldn’t feel like you hold him back because he wouldn’t want to do something that you can’t do anyway.

    There are some exceptions to this, it may not always be a good idea for two depressed people to be together if they pull each other deeper into depression for example.

    I am not a normal person either and I have looked for love for a long time and didn’t find it until I met my girlfriend. We both have similar struggles so we can understand each other very well and we are both so happy that we have found each other.







  • Noobnarski@lemmy.worldtoMemes@sopuli.xyzI'll just take the bus
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    3 months ago

    It depends on the car, my first car used gasoline, so the idle torque was low and you really needed to push the gas at the same time, otherwise it would stall, maybe not if you are releasing the clutch extremely slow, but that is not practical.

    My current diesel car has so much torque even at idle that you really don’t need to press the gas pedal while releasing the clutch.